vlhs004 Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on? and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . . then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . . so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
Confuggled_one Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 this is the easiest way to go about things: Ask her straight out.. i think she still is attached to her ex.. and truely wants to be with him. maybe you should walk away before she walks away from you and crushes you -confuggled
simon_uk Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 The girl is still in love with her ex. She is hurting and feels abandoned by him. She still wants to be with him and he is ignoring her. You could do one of two things. First, you could be there for her, offer her your love, be supportive, show her affection, try to make her happy. End up with a broken heart. Second, tell her you dont want to see her anymore. Allow her the opportunity to keep contacting her ex. To keep herself in this world of pain and misery. Save yourself a lot of heartache down the road. By staying in this relationship you are doing neither one of you any favours. Do the right thing for both of you. One other thing, fi you do end this relationship, you will gain far more respect from her. It may hurt her and she may realise what she is doing and that you are a valuable person. It may just turn things around in your favour and if not, well she wasnt the one for you anyway as her feelings lie elsewhere.
Author vlhs004 Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 this is the message he sent her today "look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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