Green eyes Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 What exactly does it mean when you ask a girl, " do you see me in your future?" And then doesnt say anything. She told me she doesnt want to be loved because she doest want to get hurt?????? Please somone enlighten me. She just got out of a 9 year relationship. Does this have anything to do with it?????????? :eek:
luvtoto Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 She *just* got out of a nine year relationship?! Wow, if I were you I would totally back off. Sounds like she has some issues she needs to work through first. Doesn't sound like she's emotionally available at this time.
Guest Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 yeah i agree...shes emotionally unavailable at this point in time. If you want to stay with her be prepared to be extremely patient. By the sounds of it she wants the security of the relationship and commitment but shes not prepared for the feelings and emotions and the risk of getting hurt. My advice is that you talk to her about it and maybe suggest to just be friends for now until she gets her head sorted out and then to build a relationship again later when she can emotionally invest in the relationship and won't make you run around in circles.
mental_traveller Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 Means she is screwed up from her previous long relationship, and doesn't even want to begin thinking about getting too serious too soon with another one. Just take it easy and enjoy some free pussy while it lasts.
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