laRubiaBonita Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 So, it is over. He does not understand why, I told him I did not feel the way he does, and it was not fair of me to continue string him along. He wants to know what he did wrong. I told him he has nothing wrong at all, he is a great guy, but I cannot be with him. He wants me to give him back the golf bag he gave me, which is fine……. i am doing better now than i was this mornig, when it all went down...... i still am sad that he has to be hurt.
magichands Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 He wants me to give him back the golf bag he gave me, which is fine……. That's what he did wrong. He's an Indian giver. Fore!
KittenMoon Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 He wants me to give him back the golf bag he gave me, which is fine……. Weak! Fill it with salt or Sharpie your name onto it first, or something haha.
magichands Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 i still am sad that he has to be hurt. Don't go doing anything stupid. You'll get past the anger with time.
magichands Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Fill it with salt or Sharpie your name onto it first, or something haha. How's the therapy going?
Author laRubiaBonita Posted October 24, 2006 Author Posted October 24, 2006 it probably cost all of $40.... and i will get my own now. but i am thinking of putting an ugly shirt he just gave me in the bag..... it was from Toby Keiths bar, and has 'i love this bar' written with sequens.... sooo not My taste!
magichands Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 it probably cost all of $40 And he's cheap.
Art_Critic Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 check your email.. I'm sending you plane tickets to Atlanta.. We have great golf shops here I'll help you pick out a new one.. after of course................................. Anybody that would ask for that kind of crap back is only doing it to hurt you. The last serious relationship I was in I had just put in a $500.00 front door in her house and I also put in about 2k worth of labor removing termite damage and rot and as soon as it was finished we broke up..The same day or hour I should say... hahahaha... I had to walk away from the cost of the door..She didn't want to reimburse me for it.... It was her way of hurting me because I hurt her.... She has to look at the front door every day now and be remembered of me Hugz....
magichands Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 The last serious relationship I was in I had just put in a $500.00 front door in her house and I also put in about 2k worth of labor removing termite damage and rot and as soon as it was finished we broke up..The same day or hour I should say... I hope that was just a coincidence.
everlong Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 jebus...u take off for a couple of hours and everything goes to pot [no drug pun intended - lol] ok..last, i remember there was talk of coffees...two people did some really good respectful sharing of 'info' and in a nice fair way..and the 'conclusion was 'in' that draft that everyone seemed so pleased about! i can't leave u folks alone for second! teasing but man - this is too much i come back to this! you calling me a indian giver! u of all people - u should know its ABORIGNAL PEOPLE - didn't u get the book i lent yah! lol that was a joke...i am not upset...ok fill me in...what's up? other than people hijacking my computer and tossing day old bagels at my car!
Art_Critic Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 I hope that was just a coincidence. I hope so too.. I never knew for sure as she never spoke to me again. I had some growing up to do after that relationship...
alphamale Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 i'm so glad you're single again LRB....now I can make my move. What's the recommended waiting period? 3 days? A week? Maybe you can come visit Detroit, I'll show you a good time, heh heh heh eh heh eh...Gigity giggity
Guest Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 The last serious relationship I was in I had just put in a $500.00 front door in her house and I also put in about 2k worth of labor removing termite damage and rot and as soon as it was finished we broke up.. Dude! I could use a new kitchen and bathroom. What's it worth to ya? LOL
magichands Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 i'm so glad you're single again LRB....now I can make my move. What's the recommended waiting period? 3 days? A week? I'm sure that alpha just wants to "comfort" you. How thoughtful.
kjl933 Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 Hey LRB..gimme a call, I am local. Besides Detroit just got theirasseshanded to them! And I would never ask for a golf bag back--I don't play!
magichands Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 Hey LRB..gimme a call, I am local. Besides Detroit just got theirasseshanded to them! And I would never ask for a golf bag back--I don't play! Well...I smell a threesome. But not a foursome. She's going to have to improve her spelling before she can get me interested.
Confuggled_one Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 So, it is over. He does not understand why, I told him I did not feel the way he does, and it was not fair of me to continue string him along. He wants to know what he did wrong. I told him he has nothing wrong at all, he is a great guy, but I cannot be with him. He wants me to give him back the golf bag he gave me, which is fine……. i am doing better now than i was this mornig, when it all went down...... i still am sad that he has to be hurt. LarubiaBonita: You are doing him a favor. You are not lying to him nor are you lying to yourself. This was the right thing to do. he will thank you later on even though he is hurt now.. it is better to have a short period of pain than a long period of pain.. and think about it this way.. he might end up hating you if you were actually dragging this relationship.. stay strong and dont be sad. you're doing what is right.. -confuggled and that SoB is cheap. man dont feel sad for him feeling that way.. he doesnt feel bad for takin back a cheap gift..
simon_uk Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 but i am thinking of putting an ugly shirt he just gave me in the bag..... it was from Toby Keiths bar, and has 'i love this bar' written with sequens.... sooo not My taste! Why would you do this if you are sorry he is hurting? Why would any of you want to have a go at this dude? So he wants a bag back? Big deal. Maybe he is just trying to cling to anything in hopes of getting you back. You know like a lot of dumpee's contact ex's with ridiculous requests. Just to keep communication open. I hope my ex and a bunch of virtual friends aren't laughing at my expense, because I, like this guy didnt do anything wrong. She just wasnt happy.
a4a Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 check your email.. I'm sending you plane tickets to Atlanta.. We have great golf shops here I'll help you pick out a new one.. after of course................................. Anybody that would ask for that kind of crap back is only doing it to hurt you. The last serious relationship I was in I had just put in a $500.00 front door in her house and I also put in about 2k worth of labor removing termite damage and rot and as soon as it was finished we broke up..The same day or hour I should say... hahahaha... I had to walk away from the cost of the door..She didn't want to reimburse me for it.... It was her way of hurting me because I hurt her.... She has to look at the front door every day now and be remembered of me Hugz.... I think Bonita may enjoy spending time with me instead. I have a trip planned for us to take a tour of the Sharpie production plant, nude male dancers, and golfing with nude male dancers. Then riding with nude male dancers...... not sure if it involves horses at all..... perhaps just the riding part? We will stop by your place Art...... are you a good breakfast chef?
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