Guest Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 its been 1 week of nc with my ex and i have to see her on weds for a meeting because we work at the same business. heres a lil info on how we broke up: my ex and i were together for 1 year and 3 months. my ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago because we got into an argument on fri, then she talked to some guy on sunday and broke up with me on monday. she told me that this guy is everything she wants in a guy, she already kissed him, and spent the night together last sat. 1 week before we broke up, she told me she loved me and she doesnt ever want to leave me, but then she did because of this new guy. i dont blame the guy because he asked her if she has a bf, she told him "i dont know what i have right now". ive been soo heartbroken about this. she was my first gf. i stopped contacting her last tues. no fone calls, deleted her from myspace, and got rid of all her things. now on weds, i have to see her because of a district meeting we have for work. we dont work at the same place, but same district. now i dont know what to do. i dont want to see her because it hurts to see her, even a picture. what should i do? should i just say i have an emergency, or go and brush her off? should i even say hi? please i need advice because its in 2 days...
Heart66 Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Sorry that u are hurting. But, it sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it to. Leave her alone. I wouldn't skip the district meeting. First off, don't ruin things on your job for her. Secondly, don't give her such control. Skipping the meeting because of her only boosts her ego. Go to the meeting. Seat yourself away from her and/or where you don't have to see her or deal with her. Don't go out of your way to be rude--that will only show her how hurt you are. She doesn't deserve that. Just ignore her and do the job that youre actually there to do. Continue NC. Allow yourself to heal and then move on to someone who will treat you better. One last thing...When she and the new guy break up--And it sounds extremely likely that they will--Do not go running back to her, or jump into her arms when she comes running back to you!!!! IF you take her back at all, make her EARN it. But she doesn't sound like someone you should want back anyway! Good luck
Guest Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Sorry that u are hurting. But, it sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it to. Leave her alone. I wouldn't skip the district meeting. First off, don't ruin things on your job for her. Secondly, don't give her such control. Skipping the meeting because of her only boosts her ego. Go to the meeting. Seat yourself away from her and/or where you don't have to see her or deal with her. Don't go out of your way to be rude--that will only show her how hurt you are. She doesn't deserve that. Just ignore her and do the job that youre actually there to do. Continue NC. Allow yourself to heal and then move on to someone who will treat you better. One last thing...When she and the new guy break up--And it sounds extremely likely that they will--Do not go running back to her, or jump into her arms when she comes running back to you!!!! IF you take her back at all, make her EARN it. But she doesn't sound like someone you should want back anyway! Good luck thank you, that really makes sense. about her coming back, im trying not to think about her running back to me because i dont wanna be waiting for her call. i know ive done so much for her, I mean im the one that got her that job. i never once let her drive, I paid for everything, bought her whatever she wanted/needed. I pretty much gave her the world… whatever she wanted she got and I was ALWAYS willing to compromise and give it her way. I guess I was a typical doormat and it bit me in the ass. I always thought I was just being a good bf, I guess she didn’t like that. Guess she like gangster guys that cant give her what I can. Why do girls like that uncertainty? Am I being a bad bf by giving her the world? Am I wrong for being nice? =(
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