scipio Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I stopped seeing a girl I was in love with 2 years ago. At first she tried to avoid me and I only ran into her maybe once every 4-5 months, but recently she has seemed excited to see me each time I run into her,...same with her friend who was cold toward me,... however is very friendly to me now. It also seemed (i think) like they were talking about me as i walked past once, and abruptly stopped when i was noticed. The other day I was chatting with some friends (whom they kinda know) and they approached us, invited us to a get together they were having (they said they didn't have enough people as it was last minute),.., somehow they got my number off me. When This is a huge problem for me,..i think its obvious to me,..if it wasn't before,..that i'm still in love with her. I was doing fine though,..this really sucks. 2 years? Theres gotta be something wrong with me. I should have just stayed the heck away and steered clear but deep down I wanted/want contact with her. What advice do you have.
Mythical Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I stopped seeing a girl I was in love with 2 years ago. At first she tried to avoid me and I only ran into her maybe once every 4-5 months, but recently she has seemed excited to see me each time I run into her,...same with her friend who was cold toward me,... however is very friendly to me now. It also seemed (i think) like they were talking about me as i walked past once, and abruptly stopped when i was noticed. The other day I was chatting with some friends (whom they kinda know) and they approached us, invited us to a get together they were having (they said they didn't have enough people as it was last minute),.., somehow they got my number off me. When This is a huge problem for me,..i think its obvious to me,..if it wasn't before,..that i'm still in love with her. I was doing fine though,..this really sucks. 2 years? Theres gotta be something wrong with me. I should have just stayed the heck away and steered clear but deep down I wanted/want contact with her. What advice do you have. I think thinking anything of this is just going to toy with yuor heart. There are many reasons why she could be acting like this. Maybe she feels bad for you?? I hope not Maybe she just wants to make things ok. So when you do run into eacthother it is not awkward. Or amybe in your mind you are constructing it to being something more than it is. Myabe you should talk to her? If you do have these feeligns for her and are guarenteed you want to be with her you have to make another step. Otherwise you have made it two years, so maybe it just sparked a feeling? Good luck I hope thigns work out
Author scipio Posted October 24, 2006 Author Posted October 24, 2006 I think thinking anything of this is just going to toy with yuor heart. There are many reasons why she could be acting like this. Maybe she feels bad for you?? I hope not Maybe she just wants to make things ok. So when you do run into eacthother it is not awkward. Or amybe in your mind you are constructing it to being something more than it is. Myabe you should talk to her? If you do have these feeligns for her and are guarenteed you want to be with her you have to make another step. Otherwise you have made it two years, so maybe it just sparked a feeling? Good luck I hope thigns work out Thanks for replying mythical. Perhaps you're right. I may be tricking myself into seeing things that aren't there. And i'm going to operate on that basis,....but my intuitions are usually pretty good. I'm definately not going to broach the subject with her. I prefer to maintain my composure as I've tried hard to do. I don't think its 'sparked feelings' only. I have thought about her alot over the past 2 years,....buts its not debilitating. However when I run into her,..its almost like i can't think. And talking to her is also painful because it brings memories,..she has a vivacious personality. However i'm good at keeping my composure.
Mythical Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Thanks for replying mythical. Perhaps you're right. I may be tricking myself into seeing things that aren't there. And i'm going to operate on that basis,....but my intuitions are usually pretty good. I'm definately not going to broach the subject with her. I prefer to maintain my composure as I've tried hard to do. I don't think its 'sparked feelings' only. I have thought about her alot over the past 2 years,....buts its not debilitating. However when I run into her,..its almost like i can't think. And talking to her is also painful because it brings memories,..she has a vivacious personality. However i'm good at keeping my composure. Well it seems like you really like her so I think you should just continue what yuor doing if you don't want t bring it up to her. I hope everything works out
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