Guest Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Oh maaaan. I think I screwed up. Looking for outside - esp. guys' - opinions on this one. Kay, so I met this guy online. We chatted for a while, talked on the phone. Met up and had a fabulous first date. I had a ball and from what I could tell he did too. He calls me the next day and asks me out again, we go out later that night and have a great time. On the 3rd date (about a week ago), we had another great time and ended up back at my place. He calls me every day since then, just to say hi or whatever. He tells me that he gets off work on Sat afternoon so we should do something Sat night. Then on Friday (a couple days after this conversation) I talk to him and he says actually he's working all weekend (which isn't impossible, but...). And he says it like he didn't remember telling me something different a couple days before. Now I haven't heard from him all weekend. I go to the same website where we first chatted. It's one where you have to keep reposting, so your posts have a date/time on them. Sat night - when we were supposed to go out - he put a post up at 7:00PM. (Work....riiiight.). W. T. F. just happened? Should I call him or just leave this one alone? Don't spare my feelings...I'm a big girl. Thanks!
elijahBailey Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 W. T. F. just happened? Should I call him or just leave this one alone? Don't spare my feelings...I'm a big girl. Thanks! sounds like it. just move on, don't call him, don't turn back.
amaysngrace Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I agree to leave him alone. He may try to contact you as soon as he realizes you've lost interest in him. Remain indifferent. Don't check his myspace anymore. The trick is to actually lose interest, not pretend to.
Guest Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 He could easily use a computer at work depending on the nature of his job.
fishtaco Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Happens all the time. Since I'm a guy, I've experienced this from women plenty of times. It's just part of dating, that's just how it is.
DanielMadr Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Oh maaaan. I think I screwed up. Looking for outside - esp. guys' - opinions on this one. Kay, so I met this guy online. We chatted for a while, talked on the phone. Met up and had a fabulous first date. I had a ball and from what I could tell he did too. He calls me the next day and asks me out again, we go out later that night and have a great time. On the 3rd date (about a week ago), we had another great time and ended up back at my place. He calls me every day since then, just to say hi or whatever. He tells me that he gets off work on Sat afternoon so we should do something Sat night. Then on Friday (a couple days after this conversation) I talk to him and he says actually he's working all weekend (which isn't impossible, but...). And he says it like he didn't remember telling me something different a couple days before. Now I haven't heard from him all weekend. I go to the same website where we first chatted. It's one where you have to keep reposting, so your posts have a date/time on them. Sat night - when we were supposed to go out - he put a post up at 7:00PM. (Work....riiiight.). W. T. F. just happened? Should I call him or just leave this one alone? Don't spare my feelings...I'm a big girl. Thanks! He can probably feel your hesitation and doubts about him...it is a big turn off. If you freak out like this...being paranoid....after one misunderstanding it is not a good sign. Or he is not sure about your feelings towards him. If he is the one who has to call and initiate all the time....he can feel like needy wimp.
Green Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 So when u said back to ur place u meant sex right. Has he tried to have sex with you again? maybe you to are just incompatible.
MadDog Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Just because he logged on to MySpace doesn't mean he wasn't at work. If he says he was at work, just take his word for it unless you know for a fact he lied. You said he would call you really often. Wait for him to call again. If he doesn't, then you have your answer. MD
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