Simons Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Hello to you guys. I thank loveshack and the good people who has constantly been here to help out. I wonder what i would have done without this site. Well, i am back here again. This ex left me a year ago for a nother guy. You can imagine how hard it was then. She was my first love and I was her first boyfriend. I had no doubt she loved me. We were together for about 3years. The thing is, no body can establish about her knew guy, i ask a couple of friends and this site, and they were like probably she was using this guy to get to me or something. Since november last year, I have not had contact with her in anyway. The last 4 months or so, she has called me couple of times, but i have not picked her phone calls. I see her in church, and i have been acting just cool and collected. Everytime she sees me in church, she would come over to me, hurg me and ask how i have been and other small talks. I have not asked anything regarding our relationship. The last one month she has been kind of so close to me. She called me a week ago and i picked her phone. She was like, i have been calling you and you never even call me back. She was really sweet. Last week, she ask me if i could take her brothers out for a movie. I can see in her eyes and actions that she is really trying so hard to get close to me. I have been waiting for her to ask me out, but i wonder if she will ever to do it. This is my dilema, should i just ask her out for a drink and see what she is upto. One year later and i still love this girl it is really funny and i am sure, she still in love with me. So guys, i have been good with NC, but i need to move on to another stage. Should I ask this girl out?????. Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks for reading
neci Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 If you still love her and you think theres a chance she feels the same I would go for it. Im not expert and if it doesnt work out then it will probably be harder in the long run, but if you feel its worth that risk I would just do it. Good luck
Author Simons Posted October 23, 2006 Author Posted October 23, 2006 OMG, this is very hard. I feel like asking her out, but something is also telling me not to. How should i go asking her out. Should i ask her about the other guy?, should i just assume they are not dating any more? if incase he was in the picture in the first place. IS there a better way to make sure about the existance of this guy?. I know she would go out with me if i do ask, but what if she confirms to me that they as still together, i'll have to go through another disapointment? Please somebody assure me that this is the right thing to do?. Thanks Neci for your responce.
Author Simons Posted October 23, 2006 Author Posted October 23, 2006 Guys, I still need more input on this situation. Any ideas???
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