gemmab2020 Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I share a flat with my best mate. He's a guy, I'm a girl. (duh!) Anyway, we shall call him Ted. Ted and me have been friends for about a year... we are both living away from home and have been friends since each of us moved to England. I had feelings for Ted around the time of New Year last year... this ruined our friendship a little bit when I confessed my feelings... but after a few months we got our friendship back on track. We were both moving so we decided to get a flat together. He started shagging the woman (10yrs older than him!!) who lives downstairs. I was insanely jealous, hence the fact that me and her were never able to get along together. She used him for quite a while and he really liked her but nothing came of it. They don't keep in-touch much anymore. We decided to get a lodger in, he only stayed a few months, most of this time I spent in my room as I didn't feel very comfy sitting in his company. He just wasnt my sort of person to socialise with. He eventually moved out after 2 months. (Thankgoodness!!!) Ted thinks brought me and him closer together... I really can't see this!! I spent mst of my spare time in my room when the lodger lived with us so I really don't know how this brought me and Ted closer together... But it has been a month since the lodger left us, and I have seen slight changes in Ted and I really don't know if they mean anything. He is moving back home in March, and he thinks we should start spending a little more time together and doing more things together, which is fair enough as we are really close friends. He has started walking quite happily to the bathroom in his tight little boxer shorts, he never would have done this before!! When I come home from work of an evening and he is there, he will put the kettle on once he hears me coming in through the door and he will make me a cup of tea. If I am working late and he is home, he puts the hall light on for me so it's not dark when I come in. He has even became a little bit more at ease when speaking to me. He doesn't think twice about coming out with the sexual inuendos!!! I know these are silly little things, but there has been a significant change for me to notice it. I just don't know if it's just change in a friendly way or if maybe he is starting to feel something more towards me than friendship. Maybe the opinion of some guys too on this one???
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