Angelz_shady Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 I've been in a realationship for five years. I was 16 at the time and he was 25. Yea i know it was wrong, well now im 21 and he is 29 but we have been through so much together. He was my first love i've never been in another realationship. Well u would think he would take care of me since of the age difference, well I was the one taking care of him. I bought him his car, paid his insurance monthly, phone bill, money to buy clothes, pay rent, and he has a daughter that is 7 now. I paid for everythin, during our relationship he has never really bought me anything and it didnt bother me I jus wanted love. His job I got him, I got him off of drugs and alcohol and was there for his daughter all the time. Our relationship was long distance and I would see him once a year, but the only reason we stayed together was because i knew he was faithful to me without any doubts. The distance didnt bother me, and it didnt bother him but its just he would say he would call me and never did. It really bothered me and i constantly brought it up to him. He would say he was sleeping and I know he was, cuz he sleeps alot. Finally I jus got tired and I was like i need to break up, but i only said it cuz I wanted his attention I told him and we didnt speak for a few days. He came back and is like i want to b friends and I need space. Needless to say during our realationship he left for months at a time witouth even saying anything to me. And I took him back everytime. I tell him I made a mistake and i didnt wanna break up but he said he wants and needs time. I asked him today if hes seeing someone and he says "kinda" it crushed me deeply cuz its only been 5 days. He keeps saying he jus wants to b alone and needs time. He came back to me yesterday and i took him back, and then today he is yelling at me sayin that everything is my fault, and he leaves again. Right now i have so much to deal wit, i'm very sick and waitin on results from the doctors and I jus wanted him to b there. But even wit that he still treats me like crap, cursing me out and blaming me for everything. Should I jus move on even though it will b so hard ?
Ssheena Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Get a backbone. You have been enabling this guy for years and he's been taking everything you have given him and not given you anything back. The best thing you could do for yourself is get as far away from him as possible.
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