Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Hi guys, I need nonjudgmental answers to this hypothetical situation. I want you to pretend to be my ex-boyfriend and put yourself in his shoes and let me know what you would do. We have been broken up for over a year, no physical contact. The break up wasn't caused by any cheating. I asked him to leave because he was not changing. Now I just emailed him and asked him if I could come over on Monday to go over some physics concepts since he is really good at physics. That is all a lie. I live with a roommate, another guy ,we used to date, but now we are more like brother sister, etc. I don't know if my ex knows this. I am planning on going over there tomorrow dressed pretty nice bc deep down I still love my ex and now that he accepted the invite I have a feeling he still loves me too. We were together (living together, also) for 4 years before the split. Here is the question: If you were my ex-boyfriend and I came over looking pretty nice (hot), but not overtly so....would you have sex with me or would you decline? Please give me a realistic answer. I don't think my ex has had sex with anyone since we broke up. I have had sex with one other person. I lost my virginity to my ex. I know this might not be the best idea, but it feels good to me and I live my life on the straight and narrow all the time....I am taking a chance for once. Good or bad, I learn from my mistakes. THanks so much.
anto0o Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 if i was ur ex and i really loved u...and u came over looking hot i would want to...but since i love you alot i won't...because i won't want to use you...i would instead talk about going back out with u and discussing the grounds of which we stand on...hopefully that goes well...but no sex...u should NOT have sex with him...
scuderia Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 well after reading yr post, i can only conclude 1 thing: You are feeling horny aint u?
jimmy20013 Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I wouldn't want to have sex with you because personally I am the kind of guy that is looking for more than physical intimacy. If I was your ex-bf and I still loved you, I would play kinda hard to play but in the end I would take you back. My advice is be understanding if he shows some coldness and try to melt his heart. Atleast that would work for me.
phyrespryte Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Do you just want to have sex? Because if that's all you want...that's a little mean to him. Well it could be if he really wanted to get back with you. But I think that if you're just looking to get back together with him...don't try to have sex with him. Sex complicates things.
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