Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 I haven't seen my MM in awhile I asked if we could see each other sunday, his words I will ask the ball and chain if we have any plans. On saturday I bought up are we on for Sunday, he said forgot to ask last nite will ask today. I said either way will you please let me know about Sunday, via phone or text he said yes. Well he hasn't and at this time of day know it will no longer happen. Do i answer the phone tomorrow when he calls?
Jane Doe Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Asking this question tells me that you know you shouldn't answer. But my guess is that you will. You've already taught him that he can treat you badly.
Guest Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I haven't seen my MM in awhile I asked if we could see each other Sunday, his words I will ask the ball and chain if we have any plans. On Saturday I bought up are we on for Sunday, he said forgot to ask last nite will ask today. I said either way will you please let me know about Sunday, via phone or text he said yes. Well he hasn't and at this time of day know it will no longer happen. Do i answer the phone tomorrow when he calls? Nope, don't answer it. Show him what it feels like to be ignored! He is showing you no respect by making you wait on him all day. Don't fall for any smooth talk either, if he really wanted to call you, he could have. W might be the ball and chain, but it sounds like an excuse to me. Good luck! BE STRONG!
whichwayisup Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I haven't seen my MM in awhile I asked if we could see each other sunday, his words I will ask the ball and chain if we have any plans. On saturday I bought up are we on for Sunday, he said forgot to ask last nite will ask today. I said either way will you please let me know about Sunday, via phone or text he said yes. Well he hasn't and at this time of day know it will no longer happen. Do i answer the phone tomorrow when he calls? If you answer that phone, you'll be falling into his ego game he has going on. DO you really think he 'forgot' to ask his wife if they had plans? Come on, think about it....He didn't bother saying a word, period. And, him answering "yes" to let you know by phone or text - He didn't actually say which, did he?? Think about it....And, he never called to meet up with you. Don't answer the phone. You deserve better than this! Why are you letting this guy call the shots? You sit and wait for him, meanwhile he's with his wife, enjoying life. Please, open your eyes, take a step back, detach yourself and see this situation for what it is.
Guest Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I think I find myself tired of his games. You are correct when you said it slipped his mind to ask. He in the past has done this a few other times, and I find myself thinking this relationship is starting to be past my tolerance level.I have put up with to much lately and have gotten nothing in return. Scared to make that descion in someways cause once I do there is no turning back. Writting about it and reading your feedback does help by getting me thinking on the right track. He comes up with some good BS when he does this, last time it was his father in law had a stroke, funny how 2 days later I saw him in a store and looked just fine to me. I never said anything except to tell him you really must come up with better BS.
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