anto0o Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 to make an extremely long story short...i was with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years..we broke up 4 months ago for 2 months...we eventually got back together and we were very happy together...we then got into a fight...i broke up with her...and 2 days later she likes some guy...so the guy picks at her brain...and she falls for it like a bag of hot pennies...she says she feels good with him...so i find out today taht she had done the worst possbile thing that i could imagine with the kid on the days of her "menstral"...and it hurt...i didn't hurt because she was my ex...but it hurt because we had just broken up...she's only known the kid for 2 weeks tops...and there not even bf/gf...and she was the type of girl that would say i would never be a slut like that...i'm not that type of girl...i'll never give it up so easy....when i found out i was in complete denial...i wasn't told 100% that it happened but i pieced it together...this girl was my world...my everything...i told myself that if we got back together i was gonna marry this girl, thats how strong i felt about her...but now i see her true colors...and know that she has changed for the worse...and reality will smack her in the face hard, because the kid is a big time player...and he got what he wanted...and will leave her...i still love her alot...but i can't see myself looking at her anymore...shes become a slut...and it hurts...but only slightly....because i know she'll wack up one morning saying ****!!! this experience scared me worse than i could imagine...i will never trust a girl for the rest of my life...i can't even watch porn anymore...and i think my dick got smaller...but it also made me realize what kind of person i was and made myself a list to boost me up when i'm down...i woke up at 5:30am on the dot for the past 2 weeks after dreaming of her... the point of this thread is not to win her back...or ask for ways to get her back cause i don't want her back...but to help people who have the same problem to move on...guys...if shes been with you for so long and she leaves u outta no where for stupid reasons...its cause theres anohter guy...and SHE WILL **** him because every guy will feel right for her because deep down inside there hurting...so they try to fill that emptiness with any other guy that sweet talks them...it sucks but its reality...so i will share my list with you people and hopefully will help oothers... I'm tired of being so good looking yet be so unattractive... I'm tired of being so to myself... I'm tired of being so tired for work... I'm tired of working a dead end job... I'm tired of not trying... I'm tired of seeing the cup half empty... I will go through school and WILL become someone... I WILL laugh at all who laugh at me now, but I will carry all who cried for me... I will NOT stand for a 60/40 relationship... I DO NOT want nothing unearned... I will bust my ass to achieve my goals and I will have it all... I WILL NOT forget where I came from and those who helped me... I WILL NOT forget what I've been through... I'm sorry for dragging down my loved one, but not sorry it happened... I love her and see right through her because she is empty... Chase my dreams I will, Chase a girl I won't... I'm looking for marriage not a fling... Thats my truth-my word-my inspiration-my motivation... I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR LESS...
Author anto0o Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 my ex started hanging out with a new group of people that have changed her for the worse...and the worst part about it all is that she bad mouths me all the time and tells them lies, and never gives the story 100% and i look like a total dick ... i know she does this because when i see people that talk to her and i give me them the story there like wtf....and just NOW at 3 in the morning i found out shes telling people other storys about me that are 100% not true...i hate this girl...but i love her...shes tearing me apart and surrounding herself with lies so that she can feel good about herself because she knows she ****ed up and is miserable right now.... i wish i could word it better...and i hopesomeone understands what i'm trying to say...
magichands Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 and i look like a total dick That sucks. i hate this girl...but i love her You may be schizophrenic.
Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Well, First Of All No Matter What Yer Ex Did To You, Do Not Call Her Names, Do Not Disrespect Her, Do Not Judge Or Make Assumptions About What And Why She Is Doing, Remember This Is A Person You Thought Was Perfect For You So Treat Her As You Would Want Her To Treat You - And Even If She Doesn't - Keep Doing So Because She Will See That And It Will Show Her That She Was Valued By You Don't Listen To What Other People Think Of You, Her, What Happened - This Is Just Between U And Her - Trust In Her, Expect Trust Back - Because When U Think About It - There Were Only Two People In Your Relationship - You And Her - Everyone Else, And Everything Else Is Exterior... Do Not Feel Sorry For Her Decisions Do Not Say Or Do Things That Make Matters Worse Do Not Compare Yourself Do Not Let Anger Replace Love And Just Be Yerself Again
Author anto0o Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 Well, First Of All No Matter What Yer Ex Did To You, Do Not Call Her Names, Do Not Disrespect Her, Do Not Judge Or Make Assumptions About What And Why She Is Doing, Remember This Is A Person You Thought Was Perfect For You So Treat Her As You Would Want Her To Treat You - And Even If She Doesn't - Keep Doing So Because She Will See That And It Will Show Her That She Was Valued By You Don't Listen To What Other People Think Of You, Her, What Happened - This Is Just Between U And Her - Trust In Her, Expect Trust Back - Because When U Think About It - There Were Only Two People In Your Relationship - You And Her - Everyone Else, And Everything Else Is Exterior... Do Not Feel Sorry For Her Decisions Do Not Say Or Do Things That Make Matters Worse Do Not Compare Yourself Do Not Let Anger Replace Love And Just Be Yerself Again i didn't do anything to make it worse, and i do love her...and she doesnt' realize that our relationship was between me and her...not her friends...but she made it her world...and it led to our downfall
jimmy20013 Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Thanks for the post Antoo. My ex didnt go and sleep with another guy but I have been through what you have been. It hurts man. You love a person to the point of death and they just turn their back on you. I gave 100% to the relationship and I just got dumped. I need to tell myself what you are telling yourself. Goodluck man. God bless you.
Author anto0o Posted October 23, 2006 Author Posted October 23, 2006 the more i find out about her the more i realize what kind of slut she really is.... i find out that she was groping/grinding with another guy and making out with another guy...who turns out to be one of my "good friends". it's sad to realize the one girl i loved did this to me...but at least now i know i dont love her anymore, because she became such a slut and she will never find the right guy because she is so ****in easy to get. DUMB WHORE
jimmy20013 Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 the more i find out about her the more i realize what kind of slut she really is.... i find out that she was groping/grinding with another guy and making out with another guy...who turns out to be one of my "good friends". it's sad to realize the one girl i loved did this to me...but at least now i know i dont love her anymore, because she became such a slut and she will never find the right guy because she is so ****in easy to get. DUMB WHORE I don't think she is worth wasting your emotions on buddy. She will realize what she lost.
Author anto0o Posted October 23, 2006 Author Posted October 23, 2006 i'm not waisting my emotions...i do not feel for her anymore...she become a whore...and will be portraited as one. i know i'm not a perfect person, but i'm the most kind hearted mother****er on this planet when it comes to making girls happy...and she didn't wanna hear it...its her lose not mine...
jimmy20013 Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 i know i'm not a perfect person, but i'm the most kind hearted mother****er on this planet when it comes to making girls happy...and she didn't wanna hear it...its her lose not mine... I know what you mean. I am the same way.
Adunaphel Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I think that going through an anger stage is normal when coping with such a situation. I hope venting can help - anger can sometimes be good for you, it can help you to speed up the process of letting go and moving on. At least you wouldn't want to get together with someone whom you regard as a slut. So you don't really want to be in a relationship with her anymore, do you? See it this way: now that you are not together anymore, it's much better to be angry and disappointed than still madly in love and seeing her as the perfect gf!!! On a side note, may I ask you where you are from?
Author anto0o Posted October 23, 2006 Author Posted October 23, 2006 no i do not want her back...and i'm from ny
Art_Critic Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I was feeling for you until I read down the page.. now I feel I must reword what I was going to post You have called her a whore twice in your posts and a slut 4 times why would you call someone you love/loved a slut or a whore ? I understand you are hurt.. but that still doesn't mean you should use those words.. I would point out that in my experience people who use names such as slut and whore when refering to their ex's have some unresolved issues that most likely lead up to causing the breakup.
Author anto0o Posted October 24, 2006 Author Posted October 24, 2006 a girl who gets fingered by one guy then runs to her man, gets ****ed, then gets ****ed by another guy is a slut. i LOVED her till i found this out
Confuggled_one Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 man you can call me bitter but i use to feel the way you did.. but maybe it's time to stop finding out what she is doin behind your back because obviously she just wants you to be pissed off or just soley cause she just doesnt care about you anymore and just wants to have fun. so stop worrying bout what she is doin, or whether or not she is a slut/whore. just end it, cut it, move on, and heal. there are a lot of nice girls out there..and though i was f***ed by one, i never let that influence the way i feel about other chickas out there. just forget bout your ex, if she loved you she wouldnt be treatin you this way homie. if this doesnt make sense im sorry.. i kinda just ended a friendship with my best friend but im just typin this to help ya out a bit.. hope this helps
Author anto0o Posted October 24, 2006 Author Posted October 24, 2006 i understand...but knowing shes a slut helps me to move on...because i know that i don't have anything special...and no one else does either...because whta goes around comes around.i always told myself she'll become a slut if she ever left me...and yeap...i just wish i never took her back the first time.
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