syrx Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 OK I am in college and I met this girl she has all my classes and she has the same birthday even the same major as I do. I have known her for about three months now and found out she has a boyfriend through conversation with friends she even talks about him once in awhile. She says she loves him and calls him everyday. at first I did not think nothing of her but now I have started to develop feelings for her I make her laugh and we joke around alot and she smiles. her boyfriend I have not met but he sounds like a good guy. However I still like her what should I do?
Tony T Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 OK I am in college and I met this girl she has all my classes and she has the same birthday even the same major as I do. I have known her for about three months now and found out she has a boyfriend through conversation with friends she even talks about him once in awhile. She says she loves him and calls him everyday. at first I did not think nothing of her but now I have started to develop feelings for her I make her laugh and we joke around alot and she smiles. her boyfriend I have not met but he sounds like a good guy. However I still like her what should I do? Start using better English and punctuation. Women like men who can write excellent sentences with proper punctuation. This is not an attempt to insult or berate you in any way but college people simply write better quality stuff than you have posted. I'm even going to help you by showing you how the above post should be written by a college attendee: "I met a girl about three months ago at the college I attend. Oddly, we share the same birthday and she takes the same classes as I do. Through friends I found out she has a boyfriend, which she herself has confirmed by telling me about him and professing her love for him. At first I didn't give her much thought considering her dating status but since we've been spending time together, joking and smiling, I have started developing feelings for her. I haven't met her boyfriend but judging from what she and others say about him he sounds like a good guy. However, my feelings for her remain and I am at a loss for what course of action to take from this point." OK, now, I'm even going to give you a short answer...no extra charge: When you meet ANY woman ANYWHERE in the world and she starts talking about her boyfriend and how much she loves him BACK OFF and go find somebody else. Consider yourself a VERY lucky man to have met a woman who is very honest and sincere. She has told you in the MOST clear manner any human being could possibly do that she is taken, she loves the man she's with and she trusts that you will take this information and process it like a sane, rational gentleman. Don't try to be friends with her. That is NOT what you want. Be as honest with yourself as she has been with you and admit to yourself that right now she is not available and you are not going to take this any further in your head. Resolve yourself to the fact that somewhere on campus there's another lady who would be a perfect girl for you. Take some remedial English grammar and sentence structure courses or you will not make the Dean's List! I tell you this as a friend and someone who is concerned about you. Writing is critically important in college and your grade in a number of classes will be determined by the way you write and not by the results of multiple choice tests. Good luck...with women...and with college.
whichwayisup Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Don't let yourself fall for her, she has a boyfriend and that's that. Be a friend but get too close otherwise you're gonna end up hurt by letting yourself 'feel' too much about her.
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