YzdaRumGon Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Let me explain my story. Last spring i met this girl at a concert. i was good friends with her boyfriend of the time and she said hi to me. i was being my anti social self and didnt say anything back to her (i am very shy). Well a couple of days later i recieve several emails from her and she kept asking why i didnt say hi to her. So we ended up talking to each other online alot via aim/myspace. Then she asks for my phone number, and we start talkin to each other on the phone for some weeks. We would end up staying up until one or two in the morning talking. Well one day we all went out to eat. It was me, her, her boyfriend, and two other friends. Things weren't going so wel between the boyfriend and her that night. After it was all over we went home and it was about 1 in the mornin. She called me and was half asleep, but told me that she liked me a lot and couldnt stop thinkin about me the whole night. i ended up asking her out and she was ok with it and we were to keep it a secret. (it was meant to be a kinda friends with benefits thing, cuz her boyfriend didnt want sex). Well we did have sex. but one thing led to another and the next thing i kno is we fell in love. heres the catch, her parents would listen in on some of our conversations and heard us say i love you and her parents knew she was still goin out with the other guy. The only way she could come visit me is by going to her real boyfriends house and staying there for an hour then seeing me before/afterwords. her parents dont like me and think shes cheating on her boyfriend (which she is) and i will take her from him. Shes not intimate with her boyfriend at all, the farthest she goes with him is a hug. the thing is how do i kno shes not just using me for sex, and should i feel wrong for doing this to my own friend.
Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 it sounds like you both are prefect for each other and that she doesn't respect her bf and u don't respect him as a friend. i think you need to ask yourself why this is and if you have always been this way. it sounds like you are both very unhappy and sort of users - perhaps you should both get some therapy. and you know as soon as your friend finds out - he will want neither of you in his life. it is one thing to have an affair with a stranger but a best friend? that's got to be the worse thing you could do. shame on you both.
elijahBailey Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 what's the problem with her breaking up with her b/f ? She doesn't wanna? She can't? Well, then she's just using ya. Sorry.
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