amgine Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Hello all yep its me the one whos been fighting her feelings for the MM. The one who the MM has been flirting blatantly with her. Although nothing has happened which i'm pleased about really. Even though the chemistry has been intense at times. Since i started new shift 2 weeks ago i have only seen him 3 times and each time was only for a couple of minutes each time, just a brief talk he was busy, asked how my new shift was doing. Today when i saw him i was looking at him noticed he needed a shave how silly is that, and it seemed as though the chemistry fizzled out. I felt nothing. Although over the months, many of them i tried to forget him but he always seemed to find a way to get me interested again, so i hope i don't succomb again, maybe its just an ego thing with him. Now i tried and looked to see if an available man could take my fancy, nothing appealed. But there is a guy who works with the MM just to complicate matters, i like him, don't fancy him as such but then i didn't fancy MM straightaway. Last few times i've seen this other guy, in his workplace i'm sure he winked at me and he is usually attentive with me. He's starting to appeal a bit, and he wears no ring. I'm hoping he'll take my mind of MM. But could i go out with him, jumping the gun here, he hasn't asked. But would it be fair knowning i had feelings (hoping it'll remain past tense) for MM. Do you think he might know would these guys have talked to one another, but probably been a bit melodramatic and overthinking I like this guy so would it be fair on him. How would any guy think if he was in the same boat would he go out with someone who had feelings for a colleague of his and knowning she didn't have any feelings for him in this point of time. Sorry for long post just typing how i'm feeling/thinking at the moment. Thanks for listening (reading)
whichwayisup Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Now i tried and looked to see if an available man could take my fancy, nothing appealed. It's good that you're getting over the MM but looking for another guy so fast to replace the MM isn't a smart idea. You need to regroup, be alone for abit. What's the rush to get involved with another guy, especially a guy who knows the MM? And one who works with you too. It's your choice here, but maybe you need to date outside of your workplace. In time. Now i tried and looked to see if an available man could take my fancy, nothing appealed. That's because you're really not ready to 'be' with someone else. Take your time...
Author amgine Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 No no no. I don't work with either guy, I am a customer where they work (eating place) I live close by to the MM But wise words WWU, taken note of.
Recommended Posts