GivingUp Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t101818/ [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]This is my story earlier if ur interested in knowing about it click the link. It has been 3 weeks sense my ex has broken up with me I don’t think she is coming back but I wish she did, I have meet this new girl about a week ago is it to fast moving on, this girl is cute we have talked a couple of times I have made her laugh and I have flirted with her and she has flirted with me I know she is single and she knows I am single I haven’t yet asked for her phone number cause I don’t want to scare her away I think she is interested but is it to soon, the problem is that I still love my ex and I still think of her 24/7 hoping she will at least call me but she might not and I don’t want to lead this new girl on if something happens with the ex. I mean no matter how long we know each other she will still be the rebound I guess right. When I am with this new girl I don’t think of my ex and I dought she is thinking about me anytime.[/sIZE][/FONT]
Rooster_DAR Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Take a deep breath and a long timeout. It's way to soon for you to move onto someone else. If you have to question it, then there is a good chance you really know the answer. As for your EX, you need to move on and swallow the fact that she is your ex and it's over. Take time out and be by yourself for a long period, it's the greatest gift you can endure. Cheers!
Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 i understand how confusing it can be coming out of a relationship and then suddenly meeting someone. my advice is this-there is no set 'time' where one is over things. everyone moves on in the own way. for some people it takes weeks, others years. and it depends on if you are the dumper or dumpee. the important thing is never treat someone as a rebound. if you know that;s what it is - then don't. that's just as bad as cheating. however if u are not sure, i would advice this [which is what i am doing now] if u have feelings for this person, but want to be 100% sure you are over with the ex and that they will not be coming back, take a two week break, inform the ex that there is a deadline [i did that one week ago] and then after that - make your decision [and make sure you are honest with the new woman as well - which i have]. then you are starting off on the right foot.
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