what does this mean?

[Josalina]

i posted on here a little while ago, 'my ex is lost and feels he doesn't know himself' was the thread title.

 

i have had a terrible few days, yesterday i saw my ex with another girl, he didn't realise we saw him to start with, and to start with i didn't know it was another girl i was just shocked to c him, so my mum and i went to follow him, only we lost him, on our way home we saw him drive past, with yes another girl... i was in shock, he knew we had seen as he put his arm up to cover his face, hopefully so we wouldn't know it was him, only his car gave it away lol, so we followed them without the girl knowing. i saw the girl get out and she didn't have a clue we had followed them, my ex was waiting in the car for her, i drove past and we both just looked at each other i looked like i was in shock and very hurt and he looked like a dear in headlights!

 

we drove round the block and packed up behind him. i got out the car, he opened his door, still waiting for the other girl.

i just said 'thanks, well now i know' and he was like 'wot?' and i said u are seeing someone else, it makes sense now and he went 'joanna she is a friend from work!' i looked at him wanting to half believe him, then said 'whatever' he said he had taken her shopping as she can't drive, i saw shopping bags but also clothes in the back, by this point i was so hurt, he could see this, to be honest i can't really remember what else was said, i walked away and heard nothing but him calling my name.

 

i got in the car and drove away without even looking at him.

 

15 mins or so later i get a text, it said :

 

joanna just cos ther sum1 in my car it don't mean im seeing them, there were 4 of us when we went tescos, i thought i wud explain myself, and the wayi feel inside i cudn't c any1 else. xxx

 

i replyed only he rung to say he never recieved my text, he rung from his home land line and explained he weren't with her or anyone and he is still confused with his life and feels knotted up inside.

i was really annoyed and told him so you say we will still be friends only you never bother even coming to see how i am, yet you have the time to take another girl out.

he said he didn't think i wanted to c him, i said if i didn't care i wouldn't return to his texts etc it went on and i could hear his mum shouting at him, bearing in mind he is 23 at the end of this week. he said he had to go to wok and his dinner was ready and he apologised for me hearing his mum shouting.

he said he doesn'y know how he can love someone to pieces and it all just go to pot. i said well thanks and he was like don't twist my words you know what i mean.

i said u treated me terribly by the end and i tried so hard to support u, and he said well i have supported you as weel and it wasn't my fault, i couldn't help it, i don't know whats wrong with me i just don't know myself.

i told him to forget it i was so hurt, how could he do this to me, i even saw her clothes in the back of his car, she had her pick bags in the front seat on the floor and he was driving her around like an idiot.

 

now i am not being funny but my ex is extremly good looking, in fact gorgeous so even if he isn't with her, she blatenly fancies the pants off him!

i am soooo sad, i don't know what to do.

my ex is very easily influenced by other people, they tell him or ask him to do something and he does it. we were madly in love and together 2 and a half years and as soon as he started this knew job behind a bar he has changed, i just can't believe it!

i just wanted to share whats happened any thoughts would be nice, thanku for reading.

[magichands]

This reads too much like a soap opera - you are making your own drama. Behave yourself.