Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Did you always think you'd get married one day? Did you always want to be married some day? Or did you think you would never get married and then changed your mind? If so, why did you change your mind? Or did you never think about marriage at all and it just happened?
stoopid_guy Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Did you always think you'd get married one day?Yes, as much as anything because it's the "tradional" thing to do. My greatest role models did it, so I expected to too. I can't say I was ever consciously looking for a wife, and there was a period of intentionally "sewing wild oats," but I knew it would happen eventually.
JamesM Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Truthfully, I never imagined I would be married. And yes, I wanted to ....when I grew up. But I never imagined growing up. When it happenened, it seemd to be almost overnight. I couldn't believe it was happening, it did, and now....voila! I am married with children. Now I cannot imagine NOT being married.
Flyin in Clouds Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 There was never a time when I was with a woman that I didn't consider getting married to her. With each and every gf I ever had the basis of the relationship was that it would lead to marriage.
elijahBailey Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Those who aren't married would wanna get married. And those who are wish they hadn't gotten married. IMHO, there is no significant reason to get married unless you wanna have kids. When I look at the divorce stats I think the prognosis ain't good.
Great Gazoo Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Well for myself I was not interested at all in getting married and then the first girl I dated changed my mind instantly and 2 and half years later we were married, so I guess I got blind sided.
Flyin in Clouds Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 ... IMHO, there is no significant reason to get married unless you wanna have kids. When I look at the divorce stats I think the prognosis ain't good. And if you just want to "live in sin", then you better have a palamony agreement in place... just in case things don't work out. And yeah, I think things have changed a whole lot since I was young.
Art_Critic Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Did you always think you'd get married one day? Did you always want to be married some day? Yep... what I didn't think would happen is that I would be divorced one day too But it was my choice to get divorced after 5 years of marriage.. I think I saved my life personally.. And yes I'll get married again.. I loved being married and all the married life offered.. I just didn't like being married to the person I wound up with in the end. Choose Wisely.. that is my advice..
Sand&Water Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Guest, Reply: Did you always think you'd get married one day? Did you always want to be married some day? Throughout my teens, and adolescent years I always thought and dreamt I would get married. I envisioned, marriage, as the Ticket to Blissful Happiness. As events, people, relatives, family, and perspectives changed parts of me -my true colors began to unfold. The idea of marriage, became something totally foreign to me. By that point, I knew the definition of marriage had changed. As each year passes by, I grow more intense at the thought of marriage. It is something I do not look forward to -and it's many dimensions. But, deep down, I know I would be a great wife -may be even mother. When I do decide to get married, my future partner will be my foundation for everlasting growth, stability, and imagination. My true colors would have, truly, blossomed. Creative Writing. Sand&Water
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