neogenesis Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 I got her number this week but would like to ask her out for dinner and an activity for next Friday (10/27) and was wondering if I should call today or wait for Sunday. I usually don't call people on Friday or Saturday evenings. I believe she is working during the day on Sat and Sun. Should I call in the afternoon on Sat and leave a message? I've called her once on Thursday but it was bad timing since I think she was at work so I didn't leave a message. Should I ask her to give me a call back when she has a chance? I could visit her on Sunday at work and ask her out then in person since I'm going to see a movie with a few buddies, she works by the theater so I can just walk by and say hi. I'm pretty sure she's really interested in me since she it's her idea to see a movie so we exchanged numbers and I wanted to do something like dinner since I don't like movies on dates, esp. the first date. Thanks
MikeC Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 I have learned the hard way about over-calling and looking desperate. If she already knows about your calling, give her a chance to call you (she should have your number by now). Calling alot only makes you look desperate, which is a MAJOR turn-off. Chill out and let her contact you. Whatever day you want to take her out should be the day you call her next. Keep it casual and relaxed.
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