Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 For the most part my boyfriend is a good boyfriend but sometimes I don't feel like my needs are being meet in the relationship and his only worried about his own. My dad died in the early days of our relationship and he used to be fine with me talking about it but now two years later I don't feel as though i can any more. Its not that i trust him less or love him less its just i feel he won't listen to me or wont care if I do. I also i don't feel like we're intimate enough. To him the only intimacy we need is sex at the end of the night but I hate that this is the only time we intimate. I want to cuddle and kiss every now and then out side of the bedroom, but he doesn't seem to understand this and doesn't seem to like being intimate outside of the bedroom. I also don't feel we spend enough time together. We only see each other once, sometimes twice a week. I don't feel like this is enough for me but when I bring the subject up he majorly cracks it and refuses to talk about it. He won't even try to compromise with me. It really hurts me because I feel like I'm more like a part-time girlfriend rather than someone he is committed to. I also don't feel as though we talk enough but once again he gets annoyed if i bring the subject up. I support him so much in everything he does. I just feel like i give and give but what i get in return is soo much less then what i put into the relationship. I love him so much and i don't want to leave him but I don't know if I'm excepting too much or if he should put more in. Any advice would be great.
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