laRubiaBonita Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 for REAL this time, i am gonna do it.... break up with "the new guy" aka mr. 5 months. after much deliberation and consultations, especially with my one-and-only bestest friend, last night, it has been agreed........ He has to be done with! buuut, I do not know what/ how to do it...... redecorating his folks house is not an option! i do not want to string him along, it is making me feel too guilty, i am not happy with myself because of it....... i hate not like me, i DO NOT need more fuel to that fire! also..... my "one" needs to be a person i can tell, and WANT to tell, anything and everything to..... and he will want to do the same return. i do not feel i really even know this guy...... and, really, i do not have a need to want to know . i know, it sounds horrid! we did have a "talk" 2 fridays ago, in which i told him i just did not think i was AS into him as he was into me, and i just did not think we were AS compatiable as we should be, in my opinion, and after his 3rd degree questioning i did tell him he treated his parents with disrespect, and he was too angry and too uptight of a person for me, well not in that many words..... Well of course he asked me to give him a chance, i acquiesced.... and i am regetting it! Also, we work for the same company, in different deparments and buildings, but still....it's gonna be wierd..... ugh, i just dread this! i do have a cold tody and will be pretty busy throughout the weekend.... i have not seen him since tuesday or wenesday... i don't remember... What should i do?!!! what should i say? just words of encouragment is all i need....... i guess.
alphamale Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 just do it...its not that hard and you'll be one step closer to the man of your dreams ....I mean, what's the big deal? If its not working out from your end then its not working out. Period.
johan Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 f What should i do?!!! what should i say? It will come naturally. Don't torment yourself.
Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 well, my 2 cents, always remember that 'the one' is someone that has consciously decided to be there for you in all the good and the bad... and making this decision is a great thing anyway you look at it, but it is your decision - you must take responsibility for your actions even though you must be unsure - but then again does anyone know what we will do at times? just remember if you believe you are capable of something - you are. and there are always people there to support u if needed.
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