shiro kuma Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Hi, I have been going out with this girl for roughly a little over two months, and we actually became bf & gf two weeks ago. She left on the 9th of this month for Europe, and will be gone for another 59 days. We email each other almost everyday (talk on the phone once in a while), she shares how she feels about me (of how she misses me); and I share a little of what I miss about her. I do have feelings for this girl, should I express them with 'I love you' or is it too soon? For those that are more *EXPERIENCED* with relationships, what are your thoughts? -thanks
Art_Critic Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 I have always felt that you tell someone you Love them when you feel that you Love them. I have only felt it with a couple of women in my life and each time I told them as soon as I felt that I was in Love with them. How about following her lead ?. is she hinting that she may love you ?
laRubiaBonita Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 i think it a bit too early for true Love....... she's gone, you are missing her, yet you can speak with her each day, give it some time. do you know alll you will ever need to know about her yet? two months, minus two weeks, thats a month and a half physical relationship, just wait till she gets back and then see if you still feel the same way, wjy rush your "could be feelings"
Author shiro kuma Posted October 20, 2006 Author Posted October 20, 2006 i think it a bit too early for true Love....... she's gone, you are missing her, yet you can speak with her each day, give it some time. do you know alll you will ever need to know about her yet? two months, minus two weeks, thats a month and a half physical relationship, just wait till she gets back and then see if you still feel the same way, wjy rush your "could be feelings" Thanks for the advice. To be honest this is my first 'real' relationship. It is a different type of feeling.
laRubiaBonita Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Thanks for the advice. To be honest this is my first 'real' relationship. It is a different type of feeling. so, maybe it is lust right now..... would you do ANYTHING, immoral or illegal, for this girl? and the fact that she is almost using you has her emotional outlet and as an outlet to a world smore familiar with her. it's like she is needing you more NOW just because of your local.... and i am sure this feeling of belonging and comradery, which is a great uniting thing when you are far from home, in strange place. just be careful... take it slow, you WILL know when it is love (usually after 6 months ).
Author shiro kuma Posted October 21, 2006 Author Posted October 21, 2006 so, maybe it is lust right now..... would you do ANYTHING, immoral or illegal, for this girl? and the fact that she is almost using you has her emotional outlet and as an outlet to a world smore familiar with her. it's like she is needing you more NOW just because of your local.... and i am sure this feeling of belonging and comradery, which is a great uniting thing when you are far from home, in strange place. just be careful... take it slow, you WILL know when it is love (usually after 6 months ). Six months sounds like a better time to say it..but, who knows what might happen? ..
laRubiaBonita Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Six months sounds like a better time to say it..but, who knows what might happen? .. amen to that!
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