akillercrush Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 I know someone already made a post about this in here, but I didn't want to try and get my problem solved within her post, and my problem is slightly different, I guess. Let's see...I'm 18 years old, and my boyfriend, Jeff, is 23. We've been together for a little over 6 months now. Before we started dating, he told me that he had a 7 year old kid, and that he hasn't seen him yet. This didn't bother me at all. I was fine with it. That all changed though. Recently, I'd say within the past month and a half, his baby momma, Becci, gave him a call, saying that she wanted him to come see Shayn, their kid. Jeff told me, and I was fine with it. Becci knows we're together and everything. She's seen pictures of me, as Jeff has one in his car. But the problem? Jeff and Becci. Everytime me and Jeff are together, he gets text messages from Becci asking if he's alone and telling him to call her when he is, or when he thinks I won't trip out. One day, I told Jeff that I think Becci wants him back. He told me she does, but that she knows it will never happen. He kept trying to reassure me that nothing would happen, but I feel so weird about all this. The other night, she called him and asked if he would come over and hook up her computer for her. She wouldn't leave him alone about it, so he went. He called me about 2 hours later, wanting to hang out. I don't know why it would take 2 hours to hook up a computer, but whatever. And lately, he just doesn't seem like himself. I have an issue with not being able to talk about my feelings openly. That's just how I've always been. He knows that. He's been asking me if I'm okay, and I just tell him I'm fine. My friends say I should break up with him, but I can't...I'm so in love with this guy, it's ridiculous. I just feel like I found the one guy I want to spend the rest of my life with, though I do know that I'm still young and have a whole life ahead of me. I don't know what to do, though...Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Guest Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 You need to move this to another forum. Try the dating or marriage and committed relationships forum.
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