theadventure50120 Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Well my ex is keeping looking at my profile , when apparently she hates me as she has it on her profile lol Well what gets me confused it she didn't want to be friends then when i agree she says im an ******* like all her other ex's , what? did she expect me to say i agree and come running back? I bet she didn't expect me to stick on my word did she? She is trying way to hard to get the message across to me , and why? Is she trying to believe it herself or what? if she hates me as much as she says she does on her profile , she shouldn't be looking at my profile and checking up on me. She says all her ex's want to be friends then ignore her. Yet she made no attempt to talk to me , she blames everyone but herself , now that i lost all contact i feel she is trying to get my attention again , number of things make me think this. and i think she will get sooo bored of her being alone alot , she says her friends are important , yet they only phoned about 2-5 times when we were together 5months lol...she will crack before me. She will realize single life isn't as fun when she kicked me out her life. What do you people think?
Ssheena Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 that she is looking at your profile? Profile where? Just wondering. It also sounds like a case of I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you.
Author theadventure50120 Posted October 21, 2006 Author Posted October 21, 2006 How do i know? It shows you the people who viewed your profile and the time , it clears it self every month and the site is Profile Heaven , a wierd site in my eyes , but she bought me an upgrade , i could have deleted it , but i want to use it and show she hasn't got to me. yeah i know she doesn't want anyone to have me , she accused me of things with a girl i had been talking to , just because i took 3days to answer an email i said i been busy , yeah you can have your things , she replied with yeah busy with another girl , wow funny for someone who doesn't care.
everlong Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 well, put your foot down. set up boundaries just like she did and politely ask her to respect yours as you are respecting hers. but you don't control her actions only she does. all these behaviors have a specific link to them, do u know if she is seeing a doctor? is she under a lot of stress? all i can say is if she doesn't communicate things to u - how would u know? that's her job.
Author theadventure50120 Posted October 21, 2006 Author Posted October 21, 2006 No she isn't seeing a doctor that i know of , but i do know she is mixed up in the head , she would constantly cry and say she is messed up in head. She said she just needs friends , yet her friends she had phoned about 2-5times in the space of 5month....i dunno but i think she works 4days a week and is stuck in the house all the time , she used to do all kind of things to herself before i met her , admitted she was a bit mad staying in the house all the time. I dunno if she is stalking me , but viewing my profile and what i get up to now has nothing to do with her. I haven't talked to her for 6days now though. RuffRyder is thinking of a way to deal with this for me , he says it's quite good.... Because if she doesn't have much to do (i dunno what she gets up to no more) , i can easily walk back in there if i choose to and act like i don't care about what happened in the past. But whether or not she "really" does hate me is another question , because if i phone in some weeks and ask to hang out for a drink or something i could either have her screaming at me or her agreeing. EDIT: when we were together she never told people her problems , she didn't have no-one to tell apart from me , yeah i think she is under stress alot , has alot of bad days. I don't know if she has anyway to contact me apart from email , she said she was going to delete my number , dunno if she did. I think she is far to stubborn to contact me anyway.
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