evan Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Lately, I've been having 6-8 hour instant message conversations with a girl that found me on myspace. She noticed that I was going to a concert, the same concert she was going to so we started talking about meeting up down there. Well she never showed up there due to personal reasons, but I didn't even remember while I was there. Since then, we've been talking about having a phone conversation. I've been putting it off, saying "I was sick". I'm much, much too nervous to do this. After a lot of thinking, I don't even know what I would say past "how are you?" I'm really attracted to her, she is very beautiful and we share many things in common. We're both 18 (unlike my last relationship, when she was two years older than me. That two years is A LOT when she's in college and your stuck in hs) I'm hoping that after 1 or 2 phone conversations, we could plan a meet up. I really, really don't want to mess this up. That last relationship I was in was almost two years ago, and since then I've been longing for someone. Bleh, she lives 2 hours away. That's another problem. I think that I kind of "burnt myself out" on conversation topics. It was REALLY easy to do that in the hundreds, if not thousands of ims we've sent back and forth. I want to save conversation for when or if we ever see eachother. I can't exactly expect someone to drive two hours (I don't have a license yet, call me lazy) to some strangers house whom she has barely spoke to. That would be the perfect situation for me though. I think it would be much easier for me to talk to her in person. A quick reply would be appreciated, thanks!
MikeC Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 First of all, get your dang license Is there anything about her on her profile that could be used as discussion? Plus, you could always compliment her by saying that she is prettier in person versus pictures. Small things.
Author evan Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 I was able to talk to her on the phone today, I think that after talking to me she lost interest. I thought I was doing a decent job at keeping the conversation going but I suppose not. When we first started talking on the internet, she was "excited" to meet me. She said "wel it's only two hours away". She told me on the phone that when she's able to go to columbus (the midway point between our homes) she might come up. Yeah, that will be during christmas. everytime
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