Guest Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 you were the guy [dumped] in one of four three senerios? the best part is the woman is playing god with the lives of others and her only problem seems to be 'which one do it pick" - that's whacked. well, if i was one of the guys in any of these situations, she wouldn't have to worry about choosing between 2 that's fer sure - wow. what's is wrong with people man! #1. I've been dating my gf for a little over a year now, and she just broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I love her so much, and i really want her back. She says she lost feelings for me... we were staying together when we dated, when i was packing her things in boxes to give it back to her since she's gone now i found this journal of hers, i know it's personal and i should't look at it... But my curiosity took hold of me and.... i read it. Apparently when she broke up with her ex, because he cheated on her, she still had feelings her him... Shortly after this time we dated. Her ex treated her really bad, he occasionaly hits her, he doesnt hug her or kiss her, they don't do anything together... I don't understand howshe still had feelings for him... Ever since she boke up with me, her ex tried to ask her back but she said no. however, she always still go out "as friends" with him. Why would she still want to go out "as friends" with him when she knows he is trying to get back with her... especially when he treated her so bad... I kind of have a feeling that she still has a little bit of feeling for him. When we dated, i loved her so much i did everthingforher, i treated her as if she was a goddess, i would buy her whatever she wants, take her whereever she wanted to go. We did things, and go to places that wenever done with anyone before... Everything was special... Ever since we broke up, i can't sleep , can't eat, can't do anything but think about her and my heart is constantly hurting... I now wonder, when she dated me, did she still have feelings for her ex? Ever since we broke up i've talked to her asking for a chance to start again. i haven't given her much space to be alone. I've decided that i will give her some time and space and not bother her so she can think about everything... and whatever choice she makes, i would respect her decision. Do you guys think she still have feelings for her ex? I just don't understand it if she does, why would someone still have feelings for someone when they treated them so bad... #2. i've been with my b/friend for nearly 4yrs on/off, thing is when we split up earlier this year i started going with a new guy. when i told my current b/friend about this he then admitted his undying love and we got back 2gether but on saturday nite my current b/friend walked out of the pub on me 4 no reason at all and i had no way of getting home so the guy i used to go with was there and offered to pay my taxi and we ended up going back to his place where i stayed the night and we had a good chat and he told me he really liked me. thing is i really like him 2 and he's only 21 were as my current b/friend is 42, set in his ways and boring. i really want to be with this other guy but dont know how to tell my current b/friend. please help! #3. I'm 26 and in love with a guy who's been through a lot of things with me. We're serious, and have even talked about getting married. The only problem I have is, that no matter how in love with him I seem to be, I can't stop a very strong attraction I have to his childhood best friend. I know we could never and would never pursue a relationship together, but I can't seem to do anything about this attraction I've felt to him since I first met him 3 1/2 years ago. The attraction is not just physical in nature. Somebody, anybody, please tell me what I can do. #4. I am going through your same situation. I was in a relationship with "john" for about 2 1/2 years, but have been having problems for the last six months. I asked for a break due to our problems that weren't getting solved. Within that time I meet "jim", who i clicked with right away. My problem is that I am still in love with john. jim knows that I am still in love with john, but has since falling in love with me and wants to be with no me. I am so confused because my heart wants John, but I am very doubtful about our relationship. I fear that it will go back to the way it was. Jim on the other hand thinks that I should give him and I a chance because he says it can be something beauitful. I like Jim, but only see myself growing old with John. Should I give Jim a chance or go back to John hoping for the best. I say not to rush into anything. I am to go with my heart. I wish you luck. I am in the same situation. Chris is a guy that was a very close friend and our relationship grew into more than friendship. David is a guy that I met a year ago and we clicked. Its a very hard predicament to be in. I can see myself having kids and growing old with both of them. The only difference is this. When I actually hug Chris, we both feel like time has stopped. Like something is pulsing through our bodies. David on the other hand is so sweet and romantic and his eyes can take you into places you've never been. I can't tell you who to pick. Looking at the situation, I don't think you could go wrong either way but tread those waters lightly. Someone told me before to leave both of them alone and see which one comes back. Or tell them both about your situation and whoever stays would be the one. This is the one that would stick with you through thick and thin. Its your call.
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