Guest Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 I met him on myspace & we started dating........I was so taken in. He is a go-getter with his own welding biz etc. He stayed with me every night for months & never paid me rent. He would throw down a $20- once in awhile. I made his dinners, washed his clothes, took really good care of him. I just got to the point in the relationship where I felt I was carrying every aspect of the darn thing. He told me he loved me (when we were both sober), then later recanted. When I wanted to go to social things, it was like pulling teeth to get him to go & he would never take time to meet my family. He wants to move his mother & I to the desert, where he owns property to start a welding biz there. He plans for the 2 of us to live in a living qtrs/machine shop & buying a double wide for his mother to live in. He added that she can cook for us. (I cook.) I had just had enough & I told him that I feel as if I contribute more to the relationship than he does. I feel weak but I really am in love with him, but I believe in self preservation. Please tell me if there is any feasible way for he & I to work this out. He is a very sweet & caring person.
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