countryman Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 i've been dating this girl for bout 2 years now. and i love her to death.shes cute,funny,nice,and we have alot in common:love: . her mom and dad likes me. my mom and dad likes her. and they like each other.we both thought of each other all the time but we never let it get in the way of our work.shes the best!!!!but heres the deal. her mom and dad moved and now she lives like 20 miles a way. we both hate long distance relationships. but we tryed to make it work. it was going good but we started to talk less.we handly talk now. i get a email from her every now and again and i try to get us to talk more but it takes her forever to reply to them.i dont want to lose her but it looks like i am. and there is this one girl that i like and shes been have a cursh on me forever. and i started thinking that i should go with someone that i can see when i talk to them but i really want me and my gf's relationship to work out. what should i do i mean i tryed geting over my gf but shes just.........too perfect to me. what should i do?
phyrespryte Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 How old are you? Do you not have your license yet?
Walk Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Must not have a license... I was thinking: 20 miles? I considered my bf pretty close by and he lived 45 minutes away. Hate to be the one to say it.. but if she was as into you, as you are toward her, then 20 miles wouldn't prevent you two from seeing each other. I think you need to make a clean break from this girl instead of leaving your heart in that no man's zone it's in right now. Emotionally you aren't free to date anyone else... You could go out with someone, but you're hearts not going to be in it.. Please don't date another girl until your hearts really free again. You'll end up hurting the girl, and no happier as far as your situation goes. And I actually think the girl you really want will respect you more if you were to tell her that you don't want to continue dating her right now. Just tell her IF or when she's ready to put some effort into keeping you around, then to call you.. Until then.. your going to date other girls who actually want to spend time hanging out with you. She'll either scream and cuss you out in several horrible ways.. Or she'll fall all over herself trying to get you to change your mind. Anyway, that's my suggestion.
josie54 Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Move. Or, given that it sounds like you are under the age of 18, and given that 20 miles is such an obstacle (I mean, really, that's 15 minutes' driving distance, and not much longer by bus), and given that she is not willing to reply to e-mails and you both can't seem to connect via phone....you two just aren't committed enough to each other to make it work. If you're a teenager, you've got plenty of time for other relationships. Let it go, and have fun meeting new people.
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