Rooster_DAR Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Well, I didn't expect it but I just received a birthday card from my EX. She misses me terribly, she loves me, and she's sorry. Hmmmm.....No way I'm falling for this crap! Cheers!
pricillia Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Well first off Happy Birthday! :bunny: :bunny: Yes you should go with your instinct about letting her back in, it seems like she is going through some things though so maybe this is just not the right time for the two of you. Give yourself some time then decide what you want to do.
Sand&Water Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Reply: It is, essentially, about you -not her. It is obvious she, still, cares about you though. Did she send you the Birthday Card via e-mail or regular mail? There is a difference. Each method explains, deciphers and projects a certain degree of worth she holds towards you. You have come a long way. Don't initiate contact. In the end, the love you had for her, you will notice in other human beings, and entities. That's what makes human love special, and rare. Happy Birthday! Well done, Sand&Water
gfto Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Hmmmm.....No way I'm falling for this crap! Outstanding! File the card in its proper place (the trash can) and continue looking for a new girlfriend. And, Happy Birthday!!
Author Rooster_DAR Posted October 20, 2006 Author Posted October 20, 2006 Outstanding! File the card in its proper place (the trash can) and continue looking for a new girlfriend. And, Happy Birthday!! LOL :laugh::laugh: Consider it filed! Reply: It is, essentially, about you -not her. It is obvious she, still, cares about you though. Did she send you the Birthday Card via e-mail or regular mail? There is a difference. Each method explains, deciphers and projects a certain degree of worth she holds towards you. You have come a long way. Don't initiate contact. In the end, the love you had for her, you will notice in other human beings, and entities. That's what makes human love special, and rare. Happy Birthday! Well done, Sand&Water She sent it via regular mail. Thanks for the responses, I have learned a lot from being part of this forum and I know what I need to do. I will continue on with my life and be happy. Regards,
Tormented Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Well, I didn't expect it but I just received a birthday card from my EX. She misses me terribly, she loves me, and she's sorry. Hmmmm.....No way I'm falling for this crap! Cheers! Well then....HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ROOST! How long ago did you and your ex break up? And how long has it been since you've spoken to her, or had contact with her? My advice? Proceed with EXTREME caution! ~T~
SurvivingHB Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Darwin, Happy Birthday! I read all of your post and you are definitely a very strong person. Don't respond to her. You are on your way to a better future.
Confuggled_one Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 hey happy bday first of all.. congrats man lol did you ignore her birthday as well though? and wow.. people come to realization too late
Author Rooster_DAR Posted October 20, 2006 Author Posted October 20, 2006 hey happy bday first of all.. congrats man lol did you ignore her birthday as well though? and wow.. people come to realization too late No, as a matter of fact I tried to setup a romantic getaway with her for her birthday in July, but she decided she would rather go on a weekend vacation with her friends instead. This was one of the last things she did that drew the line for me when I moved out. I have been N/C for almost three months now. Thanks you all!
Josalina Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 i thought u said your birthday was the 25th?! well did u have a good day? have you spoke to her?
Author Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2006 Author Posted October 21, 2006 Nope, she sent a card and I ignored it. My b-day is the 25th, I stated above that hers was in July in response to a question. Cheers!
alphamale Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 .....No way I'm falling for this crap! ahhh...you have learned your lessons well, young Jedi.
Author Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2006 Author Posted October 21, 2006 so she sent u the birthday card early? Yeah, It basically said I miss you terribly, I'm sorry, and I love you. Yeah right!
Josalina Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 well her sending it early proves a point she couldn't wait to tell you.
Author Rooster_DAR Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 Or perhaps she finally realizes that I wasn't going to stick around and put up with her dispostion any longer. I'd be more willing to bet her little fantasy bubble was bursting and who better to fall back on than me. Your point is good, but I'm going to continue to move on and just ignore it I have come to far to fall down again. Thanks Jos!
westernxer Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 Another meaningless set of words from an ex. Next.
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