joel Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 why are folks so pessmist and cynical about people and also about making new friends. I was phoning a new female friend from work or be it rec room and just talkin to her, and i guess dad picked up and listened-ah new voice 10 minutes later he tells me to be careful about meeting new ppl and making new friends as everyone out there in life is a fraud artist, user and a con. example -he tells me how lets say one day ur out in the streets-his favourite example(out in the streets) and you had no money -would anyone give you money and shelter-ah no another example-you hear screams in the park and then u hear gun shots-would you go out and help that stranger individual. -ah no he tells me that most ppl and yes friends out there in life are just using you for one thing or another. hey lets say one day you don`t have a job right -would your friend help you out and get you a job-ah no. if your out on the streets(his fav scenario) would anyone take care of you and give you money. after he asks me who i was talkin to-in a demanding voice- i ask him why does it matter you don`t even now him or even her. he s like because i have to now -there are a lot of bad bad ppl out there in the world just using you. lol first off i have no money making 2 dollars over minimum wage job and i have no car, but take the bus ,-yea i have money for ppl to fraud me. hes tellin me to be careful when buying a used car becasue teh buyer might -ah yes fraud me in buying a lemon or a stolen car -well yea thats why you go check the vin number , go to veh registration center and get a veh lean check and history report and lastly get a mechanic to inspeect it. i tell him this and hes like ya , but they can still get away with it-some ppl are very good fraud artist and even if they get caught in society just lets them go. hes tellin me how so many ppl cheat their taxes, the goverment just waste tax payers money on gambling and using it on luxury items for themselves and how ppl in life never ever follow the rules and everyone just cheats , steals, and uses one another for one way or another nobody is ever ur freind and and even ur freind won`t help u in bad times-no job, low marks, and ... i tell him yea what can u do, the law is there and its there, you just gotta do what u gotta do to prepare urself from being frauded. is this a chinese things or is it just my parents being cycnical about everthing
FELIZE Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Someone must have really done some fraud damage to Dad, in his life. "people who need people are the luckiest people in the world" "Author"
magda Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 It's just your parents being cynical about everything! Tell your dad to quit hitting you with all his negative waves.
a4a Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 wtf does he think the world is after his pot o' gold 24/7? They try stealing me pot 'o gold... I will sleep with me eye a wee bit open and they never will get me pot o' gold. or maybe they are after his lucky charms........ afterall they are magically delicious!
Romeo Must Die Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 When I was a kid, I thought my oldest sister (now deceased) was a paranoid freak about everything and everyone. I'll admit, I was a bit naive back then. I was reading some of her old letters and now they make so much more sense to me. You'll figure it out once you get ****ed over the hard way. Your father loves you very much and he only wants to protect you from harm. I'm very cynical and jaded now that my "innocence" in the world is lost forever. I have a husband that cheated on me. I had absolute faith he would never cheat, but he did. He had a long term affair with a neighbor. Boy did that ever mess with my head. I cant get that perfect, absolute trust back. It's gone.
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