She's back

[Rhythm28]

I posted on here about a year ago when I was dating this girl who turned out to be CP. I'll make a long story short. She moved to the midwest from the east coast, dated me, stopped, started again, told me about the ex, moved to the south east to be with him, called me two months later, said she wasn't happy, went to see her at her family's place, nothing happened, got in a fight which she started and haven't spoken in about a year.

 

Soooooooooooooo back in May my buddy is sitting in the breakroom with her friend that set us up and out of nowhere she says, "When it comes to love, some people just have no luck." And my friend says, "What are you talking about?". "Oh you know, my friend that worked here and moved away." Hmmmmmm

 

On Saturday night me and boys went out and when we were munching out at the diner afterwards, my roommate tells me he received a call from an unknown area code 4 weeks ago. It was a girl and when he asked who it was she wouldn't say. They small-talked for a few minutes then she asked him about me! He was confused. Here he was thinking it was one of his old girlfriends but she was really interested in knowing what was going on with me. She finally confessed that she got his number from a mutual friend and that to make sure to tell me that she'd be back in November. He asked who she was one more time and she said that I would know. She hung up and that was that.

 

At first I was flattered but then I was pissed because she didn't have the courage to call me or at least ask my roommate for my number. What the hell's that? She did, after all, yell at me like I was some little boy and didn't let me get a word in when she broke it off with me. I might be a little hesitant about trying to squirm my way back in. I went online and typed in the area code and it came up from where she moved to. I'm 100% sure it's her. After all this time.

 

I didn't ask my roommate for the whole number because I ain't calling her ass. She wants to talk to me, fine. My stock has gone up. I moved on and bought a brand new house. She knows about that too.

 

I read alot of the posts on here and I know alot of you are hurting. Yes I fell in love with her and I admit I remember the good times with her and wish we could still have that. Time heals everything. No contact works. She called but now it's up to me if I wanna go back. There's alot of single people out there and you've got to pick yourself up and have your friends rally around you. That's what they're for!!! Do what I did. Take up a hobby, start working out, go out with your friends, and meet new people!!!!!!!! You'd be surprised at who's out there.

 

As for me, she'll probably stroll into my job and just show up there unannounced with her friend and I'm supposed to run over there and talk to her. Or she'll call, say she's in town and want to get together, wind up back at my place, jump in the sack and that should "cure" everything. Yeah right. She's got alot of explaining to do and I'll give her her 2 minutes if she wants. After all, our relationship was very intimate and we bonded.

 

I may have screwed up here and there but I know I did one thing right Hang in there all of you! Someone upstairs is looking out for you

[daphne]

I sure hope you don't take her back. If she's a CP, you're going to get more than you bargained for.

 

Your stock went up. Doesn't that mean that you deserve someone better than her?

 

Just my two cents.