Vanna Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 The most annoying thing in the world is when my mm is paranoid that his wife is going to show up when we are talking at his job or when he gets paranoid for other reasons. Tonight we were at a gas station and i was showing him some pictures and he was like, "Oh! That's _____! She knows my boss. I better haul ass. You go that way!" So I am all confused. He jumps in the car and drives off, all too quick where I am as confused as can be. I dont know if I am supposed to follow him and meet somewhere else or what. So anyway, I suppose he went home. It just really upset me because he was being parenoid. It probably wasnt even that girl. And I know who he was talking about, and no it probably wouldnt be good for her to see us but he could have at least said "Good night" or something instead of freaking out and driving off. It was a really good night before that happened so maybe I should just shrug it off. Maybe I need to just realize how he feels on his side of the relationship. I guess losing his job is something to be paranoid over so maybe its okay the way he left. It just really hurt my feelings but then again, I guess in this kind of relationship I have chosen there are a lot of hurt feelings.
Guest Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 You are sleeping with another woman's husband. If you choose to continue to behave this way you will have to ge used to the fact that you are a secret. He will not want to be seen in public with you because he wants to protect whatever is left of his marriage. Maybe you should date single men and you won't be so annnoyed.
Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Posted October 22, 2006 The most annoying thing in the world is when my mm is paranoid that his wife is going to show up when we are talking at his job or when he gets paranoid for other reasons. Tonight we were at a gas station and i was showing him some pictures and he was like, "Oh! That's _____! She knows my boss. I better haul ass. You go that way!" So I am all confused. He jumps in the car and drives off, all too quick where I am as confused as can be. I dont know if I am supposed to follow him and meet somewhere else or what. So anyway, I suppose he went home. It just really upset me because he was being paranoid. It probably wasnt even that girl. And I know who he was talking about, and no it probably wouldnt be good for her to see us but he could have at least said "Good night" or something instead of freaking out and driving off. It was a really good night before that happened so maybe I should just shrug it off. Maybe I need to just realize how he feels on his side of the relationship. I guess losing his job is something to be paranoid over so maybe its okay the way he left. It just really hurt my feelings but then again, I guess in this kind of relationship I have chosen there are a lot of hurt feelings. He's ashamed of what he's doing with you, you should find someone single and not see married men anymore. It never ends well anyway. If his wife finds out, which she will, you will possibly be ostracized and outcast.
outofdarkness Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 The most annoying thing in the world is when my mm is paranoid that his wife is going to show up when we are talking at his job or when he gets paranoid for other reasons. Tonight we were at a gas station and i was showing him some pictures and he was like, "Oh! That's _____! She knows my boss. I better haul ass. You go that way!" So I am all confused. He jumps in the car and drives off, all too quick where I am as confused as can be. I dont know if I am supposed to follow him and meet somewhere else or what. So anyway, I suppose he went home. It just really upset me because he was being parenoid. It probably wasnt even that girl. And I know who he was talking about, and no it probably wouldnt be good for her to see us but he could have at least said "Good night" or something instead of freaking out and driving off. It was a really good night before that happened so maybe I should just shrug it off. Maybe I need to just realize how he feels on his side of the relationship. I guess losing his job is something to be paranoid over so maybe its okay the way he left. It just really hurt my feelings but then again, I guess in this kind of relationship I have chosen there are a lot of hurt feelings. Your MM is living a complete lie...You and the W will most likely, at some point, both get very hurt and humiliated. He is hiding you from his W and everyone else, becaue he knows that he is wrong. Do you want to live your life this way? If he was serious about your relationship, he'd take you places, introduce you to his family, friends, ect...Prepare for much more hurt and eventually a huge blow up when all is revealed. So sorry for your pain...Good luck and blessings...
NoIDidn't Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 His actions are showing you that he only wants what he can get FROM you, not what he can give TO you. Do not settle for this. The wondering if you should meet up someplace else reveals at lot about your thinking and feelings towards this man. Stop it. You will be very hurt in the end. He is showing ALL the signs that when the gig is up, you will be THROWN under the bus.
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