Kyo Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 i still have a problem with talking with one girl but i gotten better than i use to. i don't want to like go out with them r anything. just know how to talk to them that's all. [for now..] now my problem to talking with many girls. i mean when it was a one on one conversation i could be able to think more. but now when it's a bunch of girls it's hard and even harder when i don't no any of them. the thing is that i joined a club and about 75% of the members are female. i mean talking to one was hard i don't know how to go talk to all of them. i plan to talk to one of them at a time i think that's better, but the problem is i mean say if there are two girls and they are friends, now what do i do? talk to one and the other? or focus on one..I'm really confuse at this point. also today i was walking and there was a girl i knew and i wave to her..like a "real" wave hello and my friend pointed out that was just "gay" [ no disrespect] I've always done this. i don't no any other way to say hi to a girl that's walking by. i mean saying hi to a guy is easy, give them a nod and they acknowledged you there and yea, but i can't see how that can work with a girl.. also I'm a senior in high school. 16years old . 17 in Nov.
Loserdude Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 also today i was walking and there was a girl i knew and i wave to her..like a "real" wave hello and my friend pointed out that was just "gay" [ no disrespect] I've always done this. i don't no any other way to say hi to a girl that's walking by. i mean saying hi to a guy is easy, give them a nod and they acknowledged you there and yea, but i can't see how that can work with a girl.. also I'm a senior in high school. 16years old . 17 in Nov. Hi Kyo. I assume you're a guy. I think you are having no problems at all. See , some things are "relative" meaning that to you it may seem like a problem, but I guarantee in one year from now you'll be saying something different. You are doing just fine. Waiving hello is fine, not gay, and nice. It is especially good because it is YOU. So is not talking to a lot of girls at once (or being good at it). So that too is your style. You should learn what your style is and be good at that. If it's a cool waive or just talking to one girl at a time, it's all good. Focus on Kyo and what makes him tick. And sometimes to help you with talking about things - read the paper a little before you go to your group and think of some things to say if you need a topic of conversation. You might see an article that you like, or a funny comic that you could explain and get some laughs or talk about a movie. Whatever. Just don't try too hard at it. Good luck. Let me know how you do!
Author Kyo Posted October 22, 2006 Author Posted October 22, 2006 alright i'll try and listen to your advise, thanks.
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