jimmy20013 Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 First off all I would like to thank all of you for helping me to get over my breakup. My gf of 18 months dumped me for no apparent reason around 6 months ago. I think I am doing pretty good when it comes to dealing with pain. Somedays it feels like hell but there are days when I can say, it hurts but I will be ok. The hardest thing for me to deal with is rejection. I have never felt so rejected in my life. Sure I had my share of rejections from friends and other people but this is the worst. How do I deal with the rejection? I may not be the best guy in the whole world but I am a billion trillion times better than the other scum bags she dated. I supported her when she needed me. I took care of her when she was sick. I did things for her that none of her other boyfriends ever did. I held her in my arms and comforted her at nights altogether when she used to have those panic attacks and she just left me. Boy I feel so used and taken advantage of.
Guest Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 When she gets screwed over by anoter jerk, she'll coming running back to you. Dont take her back. You deserve much better than this.
Author jimmy20013 Posted October 20, 2006 Author Posted October 20, 2006 I hear ya guest!!! But I still pray that no one ever does to her what she did to me. But she will reap what she has sowed.
Anastasia0309 Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 She sounds like a Naive girl. She will Mos Def be kicking herself in the butt for letting somone like you go!
Author jimmy20013 Posted October 20, 2006 Author Posted October 20, 2006 I wouldn't count on that. Sometimes people are too naive to notice what they have lost. Oh well....I did my part. Edit: She has convinced herself that I am an abusive person because I get angry when she pushes my buttons. Of course I am going to get angry if someone is trying to push my buttons. Also she was going to school when we were dating and she didn't have time to hang out with her friends. I always encouraged her to call her friends and keep in touch with them. Now she is out of school and she is catching up with her friends which she couldn't do WHILE SHE WAS IN SCHOOL. But guess who gets the blame. ME. She says I stopped her from hanging out with her friends. I did every possible thing for her, from writing poems to candle light dinners to ballroom dancing to sending flowers and she just flicks me off like a nobody. How can people convince themselves of things that are not true? I can never do that. I was never the one to play games. I thought our relationship was above that. I guess I should have never given her everything so easily. I should have made her work. Maybe then she would have realised what a prize catch I am.
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