princesskat Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Hi Just need some advice, i am seeing this guy from work for the past 5 weeks, he have a great time together and enjoy each others company very much. We had a conversation about where we aregoing, he told me that he doesnt want a girlfirend, that he is happy to kep seeing me. We sleep together and the sex is great. We act like a couple outside work, and one could ony assume that we are serious. I really like him and i am just not sure of what i should do now. How do you get a guy wrapped around your finger? and to make him chase after me? HELP!!! do you think he is with me just for conviant sex? or is he scared of commitment? how long should i wait before i need more from him?
Island Girl Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 So you work together. How quickly did you get involved after you met and how quickly did you sleep with him?
shawn_68 Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 We had a conversation about where we aregoing, he told me that he doesnt want a girlfirend, that he is happy to kep seeing me. We sleep together and the sex is great. You're probably not going to like what I have to say, but I'll say it anyway. Unless you are in this for the EXACT same reason he is, get out now. I'm sure he is quite content on things just as they are now. If you're looking for more, you'll get hurt in the end. And working with someone that has hurt you is no fun.
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