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What is it with ex's and texting? Can't they pick up the phone?


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Hi everyone- I don't even know where or how to start.

In the past year my bf and I have broken up about 4 times. Over the usual thing-fighting, jealosy and immaturity.

This last time he said he didn't love me- then he said he only told me that because he thought that's what I wanted to hear. WTF?-yeah a girl wants to hear that from the man they love.

Anyway things were say and I went on to NC. People NC works! I counted each hour and thought about him non-stop. it was hard but I learned that I was doing this for me.

It only worked for 8 days, because one night I went out with my friends and got way too drunk. I didn't remember what happen that night, that's how bad I was drinking. I was told by my friends I was texting-dont remember. And guess who I text? That's right my ex. I went straight home that night and slept it off. When I woke up I had 5 msgs from my ex. Telling me he loves me and all this crap. I gave in and text back. There was an arguement because I was hurt and I didn't feel he was sincere. That was the first time I really cried after our break up. Weekend pass and I didn't send him any msgs. BTW this man only communicates through text messing me. I hate that. So I text back short answers.

We aren't back together and I don't want him to think that ill come back. I've been through $h1t and back. He's the one man whose really broken my heart.

I haven't text back and I'm not planning to. I want to know why do people find texting the only form of communicating? If you care so much it wouldn't hurt to pick up the damn phone,right? I feel as of this was a joke or a game. I won't text back. I'm tired of this. I'm still hurt and now I feel more alone than ever. I just wish I sticked to NC before. If anyone is having NC please stick to it. Now I feel I'm back to square one. I need help. Thanks for reading.

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