Parky Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Hello there. My friend has invited me to a party. He said there will be alot of girls going. Me and my ex broke up just over a month ago from a 1 and half year relationship and my confidence has dropped dramatically. I want to meet new people and date new people. Yes i have got over my ex. The only problem i have is my shyness and how to approach someone that catches my eye at the party. I wouldnt know what to do. Can anyone give me any tips? Thanks.
Ripples Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 A really easy thing to do is smile. A lot. If you can, then talk to lots of people, both male and female. Just go up and introduce yourself. Or if that's too much, grab a jug/bottle/keg/plate/bowl of whatever is being served, and go round offering to refresh people's drinks/nibbles. You can then get to move around the room, see who's there and make eye contact with the person you like. If they smile back at you, it's an invite to go talk to them.
lovelorcet Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Yup just smile and look like you are having fun. Make eye contact with men you are interested in and hold it. You may have to do it a few times but if you get a smile back then dont stop
Author Parky Posted October 18, 2006 Author Posted October 18, 2006 Yup just smile and look like you are having fun. Make eye contact with men you are interested in and hold it. You may have to do it a few times but if you get a smile back then dont stop Men? lol i am a man seeking a woman.
bluechocolate Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 You could try The Social Dance. Talk to someone & during the conversation invade their personal space. Chances are they'll back away & when they do start talking to the next person closest & do the same thing. Eventually you'll have talked to everyone at the party, whether they'll like you or not is a different matter.
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