Angelz_shady Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 I've been in a realationship for five years. I was 16 at the time and he was 25. Yea i know it was wrong, well now im 21 and he is 29 but we have been through so much together. He was my first love i've never been in another realationship. Well u would think he would take care of me since of the age difference, well I was the one taking care of him. I bought him his car, paid his insurance monthly, phone bill, money to buy clothes, pay rent, and he has a daughter that is 7 now. I paid for everythin, during our relationship he has never really bought me anything and it didnt bother me I jus wanted love. His job I got him, I got him off of drugs and alcohol and was there for his daughter all the time. Our relationship was long distance and I would see him once a year, but the only reason we stayed together was because i knew he was faithful to me without any doubts. The distance didnt bother me, and it didnt bother him but its just he would say he would call me and never did. It really bothered me and i constantly brought it up to him. He would say he was sleeping and I know he was, cuz he sleeps alot. Finally I jus got tired and I was like i need to break up, but i only said it cuz I wanted his attention I told him and we didnt speak for a few days. He came back and is like i want to b friends and I need space. Needless to say during our realationship he left for months at a time witouth even saying anything to me. And I took him back everytime. I tell him I made a mistake and i didnt wanna break up but he said he wants and needs time. I asked him today if hes seeing someone and he says "kinda" it crushed me deeply cuz its only been 5 days. He keeps saying he jus wants to b alone and needs time. Should I comepletly move on and never talk to him again. I dont know wut to do.?? help
EllieBear Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Let him call you...Don't contact him...He needs time so give him all the time he needs. When you contact him he knows he still has you and will continue to be like "Maybe" "Kinda" I want to be with you. He knows how you feel and he has you on the back burner when he can't or doesn't have anyone else...SO LEAVE HIM ALONE! I know it's hard but it has to be done...or there might never be a chance to get him back...even if you want one... He seems selfish to me. A relationships is give and take...you gave and gave and he didnt give anything but take...Sounds like a loser and you can do better...I know its hard now but just have NC with him and start from there..Good luck!
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