1997mkiv Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 I have been talking to this girl for over 4 months. I like her alot and I know for a fact that she has feelings for me too. The problem is that she has a boyfriend. They hooked up back in high school for a year and a half and hooked up again after high school for another year and a half. He is her 1st for everything(sex,love,relationship). He is an ******* to her. There are numurious occasions where he treats her like **** and make her feel like ****. She is diffently a push over with him. Everyone around her including myself can see that he has the upperhand in their relationship. Lately she and I have gotten close. Nothing sexual just cuddling and her in my arms when she comes over when she can. Funny thing is we haven't even kissed. I know for a fact that she wouldn't mind it(she told me) but she would always move to the left or to the right when I do go for it. She tells me that if I do it I have to be spontanious. She tells me that I make her think about it too much where she changes her mind alot. So pretty much she tells me she wants it but pretty much I can tell she will feel guilty afterward. Last friday she and I kinda had got into a lil agrument(a little one). It was over the whole kissing thing. So I got really fruastraded and got a lil mad with her. Its obvious that she picked him over me. But my question is that is she really in love with him? I even asked her '' if your really in love with him then why are you hear and why am I in the picture?" She likes the attention that I give her. She even admit that I maker her smile as much if not more then her boyfriend. She would text and call me all the time as if we were together. So we started to talk again after friday's blowout. I need some advice. Should I just forget about her? Should I be there emotionaly if she needs me but at the same time keep my dignity? She even admitted to me if this even counts for anything that if she didn't have a boyfriend that she would want to be with me. Im so confuse right now. Even though I know I can't have her right now I still want her in the picture as a friend. We get alone really well for the most part. You can say we bring out the best in each other. What should I do? What should I do? I have alot of feelings for her so its not that easy to just jump ship to another girl. I do have this other girl that wants to have coffee with me but I haven't really talked to her yet(my girl-friend hooked it up). I need some serious advice.
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