Guest Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Over the past few months I have been getting angry with my boyfriend over stupid stuff. I really don't know what to do anymore to stop feeling so angry toward him. I love him and want us to stay together but I am afraid that if things don't change he will either leave me or I will decide I no longer want to be with him because I can't go a day without getting mad at him. Any ideas on what I can do to stop getting angry over stupid little crap so I don't end up losing my bf?
Lynn&Troy Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 I find that the best way to deal with issues are upfront and honest. It is hard to get along if something is bothering you. But if something is bothering you and it continues to go on and you say nothing. I have found that for me that makes the situation even worse. When I am really angry about something I have found it best for me not to say anything, right then and there, I usually wait until I have calmed down and then I go to that person in a calmed state of mind and I can talk to them and I can hear what they are saying. If I am really angry I can't hear a word the other person is saying and I start doing the tit for tat thing. I would try talking to him before anything can come up. Like maybe in the morning or while doing something, anything but before or during an arguement. I hope this helps.
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