lolablue Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Hi... I'm new here... As we all know from being here breaking up is hard to do sometimes but sometimes very necessary. I'm at work and don't have time to get into my story but my XBF and I lived together for over a year and were together before that. We loved each other alot, but in some ways there was tons of baggage and many obstacles so I asked him to move out. Still wanted me back blah, blah blah... I really just want to get on with my life. No contact. I can't... it is to hard for me to have contact with him. So we've been no contact for a few months now. And we were in and out of contact months before that, all of which he broke. The times when we werent speaking at all I would get hang up phone calls on my cell and work # (which I have no control over). The weeks we were talking no hang up calls, and I did casually bring up the fact that I'd been getting hang-ups (he said nothing) . So it's been 3 months with no contact and I have no desire to speak to him again as too much hurt etc. I still get the hang up calls at work, where they'll sit there for a couple of seconds after I say my name then slowly put the phone down. Now I have a huge gut feeling it's him, and don't know how to deal with this. I really just want no reminders, no calls, but as I'm at work I have no control of the calls that come through here. ARGH what do I do????? I will not contact him to tell him to stop!! I'm sorry if I babbled on and thanks if you made it this far, I'm just really frustrated that he can still contact me!!!! lola
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