Is there truth to this?

[Guest]

Ok so my husband admitted to me not long ago, that when he was 10 years old, there was a girl that lived down the road from him, and she was about 13 or 14 years old. My husband was a shy boy and this girl that would come over his house was very outgoing you could say. He told me one day while they were out shooting some hoops she told him she wanted to show him something and so he followed her into the woods down by his house.

 

He said she began to take her clothes off. She then started to take his off or at least pull his pants down. I think she actully got on top of him, but I'm not sure. I know he did say they didn't really do anything, but that he was scared and in shock, so bascially she did whatever while he just stood there. But yet he says they didn't really do anything so not sure what was done.

 

Anyway he is a very sexual person, which is great don't get me wrong. He also loves porn and has struggled with porn addcition before in the past. I'm here for him and love him greatly, but he tells me because of this incident when he was a child with this girl who really wasn't much older than him, is the reason he loves sex so much and got to have it. He says its also the reason he loves different kinds of porn so much. Does anyone think this is true? Whatever was done with this girl is the cause or does it sound like an excuse?

[JackJack]

Sure there is truth to it. Wheather it is in your husbands case or not I don't know. Might be an excuse and it might not be. There are alot of people who have sexual addcitions or maybe not even that, but very sexual and it can come from something happening to them as a child or when they were younger. NOT ALL people, but yes some. I wasn't abused sexually by anyone and I'm a sexual person, but that doesn't mean some who were sexually abused don't have issues with sex because some do. I think it can go either way. Some really really like it, and some don't want anything to do with it, just depends I guess.