Messed_Up Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 I've been sleeping with this guy since January. Then last month I found text messages on his phone from another girl, so i told him there was no point in us seeing each other anymore as i knew he liked someone else, he said yeah i do but she has a bf!! I saw 2 of his mates who told me about how much he was in love with this other girl! A few days later he txt me saying he was horny and did i want to go over his house. I replied saying - dont think your gf would like that much! he sent 1 back saying he didnt have a gf!! Anyway, I didnt meet him! Then 2 weeks ago he asked me to go and meet him and I did and we ended up sleeping together...and again on saturday! Now im just confused, if he likes someone else why is he still sleeping with me??? Also i dont know what to do, I just feel like he wants me for sex, but I cant say no because id rather him use me than me not have anything from him!! Help me please!!!
Art_Critic Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Don't ever let a guy use you like that for sex.. he is an assclown Kick him to the curb .. quickly.. he is only using you for sex and doesn't respect you at all
kjl933 Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Guys can easily separate love and sex. Women cannot. He is sleeping with you because you said yes. His GF said no, or was unavailable and you were. It is quite simple honestly. AC is correct, kick him out
Author Messed_Up Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 Its just hard because I like him so much...I know he dont feel the same way and just see's it as a sex thing. I know i should tell him to get lost...its just dealing with that after, its gonna hurt and i dont feel strong enough!
kjl933 Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Well if you like him that much, tell him the sex is great, but you are not willing to play second fiddle to the "gf". Tell him to make a decision. But let him know that if he chooses her, you are out of the picture completely. He keeps coming back to you. I suspect that you might end up catching him--if that is what you want!
Art_Critic Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Its just hard because I like him so much...I know he dont feel the same way and just see's it as a sex thing. He is using you for sex and you know that he is.. Having sex with him won't make him like you more than he already does.. He is disrespecting you and doesn't care about you and what you think.. If the girl that he is texting with would have sex with him then he would drop you like a bad habit... Something to think about.. Remove him from your life and find someone that doesn't use you. That is the healthy thing to do
Author Messed_Up Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 Thanks guys. xXx I guess I have to just accept that he dont want me, sucks though!! But thanks for your advice i know what your both saying is right! xXx
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