Angelone84 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I been with this guy for 7 months going on 8 now ...The big problem we have is trust ..Well i have the problem ..He trust me 100% i trust him like 50 %..He never did anything to make me not to trust him ..We live together too ...It's just that he has alot of girl friends ..Which there is one that who has been there for him alot ...How do i get over the fact that he has alot of girl friend which are just friends .... Link to post Share on other sites
FELIZE Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I have been through this myself.............Have you tried talking with him, about how you feel? Link to post Share on other sites
MikeC Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Talking alone would probably bump that 50% up to 100%. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angelone84 Posted October 18, 2006 Author Share Posted October 18, 2006 yeah i talk to him ...He tells me that i knew he has girl as friend from the first time we met and i didn't have a problem with it ...Well at first i didn't like him in that way ..I love this man with all my heart and i see him as my family ..There is somthing about this one girl i can't explain i could talk to her online and i am fine just when she comes over it's like go home are get a life ... Link to post Share on other sites
Matt L Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 At the risk of sounding jealous, have you asked him about this one particular woman that bothers you? I'm also going to suggest that perhaps this is an issue that is yours and alone, based on your own insecurities, which means there can be no quick and easy "fix" to getting over the fact that he has lots of girls as friends. I think it would be advisable to observe the way your boyfriend and his 'girlfriends' interact to see if you can discover exactly what it is about their connection that bothers you. Dwell on what you and you boyfriend have, and not on what he has with other women. I guarantee your relationship with him is more fruitful. Link to post Share on other sites
FELIZE Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 yeah i talk to him ...He tells me that i knew he has girl as friend from the first time we met and i didn't have a problem with it ...Well at first i didn't like him in that way ..I love this man with all my heart and i see him as my family ..There is somthing about this one girl i can't explain i could talk to her online and i am fine just when she comes over it's like go home are get a life ... Well since you have talked, maybe this is something that you need to workout on your own! Link to post Share on other sites
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