Guest Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Hi. I'm new. Have been with my boyfriend 1 1/2 yrs. We live together with my two kids (ages 7 & 9). He's 25 and I'm 30. Since the beginning he has told me that he didn't want kids of his own and would be happy raising mine. I/we have been using the pill, but do to complications from the hormones i need to stop. He was ok with me getting my tubes tied, but now that the surgery is next week things have changed. He say's that he doesn't feel like we should do something so permanent and he also feels that it is something we should decide after we have been married several years. Does that mean he's thinking about it. We love each other very much. He's the guy i could spend the rest of my life with. We just purchased a house in june.
stillafool Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Maybe or maybe he doesn't know if you two will get married and he doesn't want you to get your tubes tied for him and then you two not be together. That wouldn't be fair to you. I think that at least he is thinking of you. In my experience when guys say they don't want kids they mean it and I would take all precautions not to get pregnant. Good Luck!
Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 We've talked about it before. He said he'd be more than happy to marry me, but that he'd know when the time was right. He also said he didn't want me getting tired of waiting. I was married for 8 years & trust me i don't want to rush into that again. It was terrible.
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