everlong Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 tossing this question out there and i would appreciate only thoughtful, honest suggestions/advice please. when a relationship ends and you left something with the x [like your fishing rod and tackle box - what are the chances your will get it back
Confuggled_one Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 you can get it back.. but its best to leave it with your ex.. cause then they might tryta do some stuff ja know? my ex use to do that to me all the time. i left art books with her and she would NEVER hand it to my friends but have to hand it to me in person.. and then whenever she did that she alwayssss tried to get intimate with me.. that just stunt my healing process and it made me feel like **** even though it made me feel great for a day. so i suggest you just to leave it. i bet your ex is expecting you to get it.. hope this helps
Mythical Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Id say if you guys ended it in a really rough way, just leave it. EXSPCIALLY if thier still "obbsessed" with you because it is an excuse to talk again and an excuse to get a hold of you. I've seen really bad thigns come out of this before....and even more so to these stupid....stupid ppl that use thier ex's as booty calls!!!!!!
Author everlong Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 oh la la! lol no, i think u got the wrong idea. i meant would the x still have it or would they trash it? and i would never go over or have them bring it to me - always best to get someone else to be the middleman...or have them drop it off when you are not there. you don't want any more conflict, hurt feelings... or you can wait a couple of years until everyone has cooled off and that whenthe booty call is possible! woooo hoooooooooo teasing
Author everlong Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 thoughts on the X totally unrelated as u know i started the post and i just glanced at the subject title again that would be a great title for a cd...remember the band X?
Mythical Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 lol opps sorry man, um well I know I wouldn't throw his thigns out inless it ended really bad cause he cheated on me or something.
climbergirl Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 no, i think u got the wrong idea. i meant would the x still have it or would they trash it? and i would never go over or have them bring it to me - always best to get someone else to be the middleman...or have them drop it off when you are not there. you don't want any more conflict, hurt feelings... Depends on what kind of person they are-some view your things as their consolation prize at the end of a relationship.
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