Guest Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 Hello.Sorry for my english. In short:I'm heartbroken. 1 year and 9 months relationship.Lived together 9 months. We argued a lot (mostly about little things), and despite I was in love, I knew that maybe she isn't the one.And because she is 35 and i'm 36, I've got silent ultimatum. I didn't propose her, so she falled out of love slowly in 3 months.We wanted only to separate at first, but she changed her mind and broke off completely. After 2 weeks,she broke NC, telling me something nice, and that was my false hope.i tried to beg her to be with me,she didn't want.She said I didn't call her first 2 days of break up so I didn't fight enough. After 2 more weeks of NC, she called that she found my passport. I tried to meet her shortly in the morning, before job, but she canceled the meeting two times. Almost 2 more weeks passed, she didn't call. I don't know why I still have hope...I'm very emotional, and I'd give anything to second chance.So she can play her mind games.I am trying to be busy all the time, I continued my study, but it is still fresh, and, at the moment, I don't see that I'll be able to fall in love again. What should I do..call her last time, meet her,grab my passport, act confident and calm...and then go to NC for third (fourth) time...? thanks for advice
Guest Posted October 18, 2006 Posted October 18, 2006 Hello.Sorry for my english. In short:I'm heartbroken. 1 year and 9 months relationship.Lived together 9 months. We argued a lot (mostly about little things), and despite I was in love, I knew that maybe she isn't the one.And because she is 35 and i'm 36, I've got silent ultimatum. I didn't propose her, so she falled out of love slowly in 3 months.We wanted only to separate at first, but she changed her mind and broke off completely. After 2 weeks,she broke NC, telling me something nice, and that was my false hope.i tried to beg her to be with me,she didn't want.She said I didn't call her first 2 days of break up so I didn't fight enough. After 2 more weeks of NC, she called that she found my passport. I tried to meet her shortly in the morning, before job, but she canceled the meeting two times. Almost 2 more weeks passed, she didn't call. I don't know why I still have hope...I'm very emotional, and I'd give anything to second chance.So she can play her mind games.I am trying to be busy all the time, I continued my study, but it is still fresh, and, at the moment, I don't see that I'll be able to fall in love again. What should I do..call her last time, meet her,grab my passport, act confident and calm...and then go to NC for third (fourth) time...? thanks for advice update.. I told her that I need my passport urgently. As we work near each other, I asked her to come to her parking to change stuff. She was suprised why I'm so in a hurry suddenly. When we met, she was very distant, we changed stuff, and I said good luck, take care...I was dying inside, but I hope I didn't show that. It hurts like hell now...I was doing OK after 3 weeks of NC, and tomorrow it's day 1 again...
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