scaredinlove Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 My loser MM called me, he wants to keep contact, maybe in the future he says.I said I have a date with this guy who he always have been jelous of( Big Lie), I starrted telling how the guy approched me and how nice he was and I was going to give him a chance,we are going out friday. I was lied with a straight face ,voice because It was over the phone.It kind of hurt and felt good at the same time. I just wanted to torture him and get rid of him.Maybe now he is not gonna call me anymore if he does I will make up more lies about my new "relationship". Am I sick or what? I am not seeing nobody and I have no intentions of seeing anybody but if he asks I will tell him how wonderfull this new guy is...He taught me how to lie and I am becoming an expert, I am not proud of it but it sure felt good to make him upset.
whichwayisup Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 Stop answering the phone first of all. Detach yourself enough so you don't even care what the MM thinks or feels. ANY kind of reaction and attention you give him is what he wants...So, stop playing into his ego!
Author scaredinlove Posted October 16, 2006 Author Posted October 16, 2006 Stop answering the phone first of all. Detach yourself enough so you don't even care what the MM thinks or feels. ANY kind of reaction and attention you give him is what he wants...So, stop playing into his ego! I don't think he is going to call me anymore.And I don't have caller Id so it is hard to know who is calling.He calls me at work too. He was really upset, maybe he will take a hike now.
whichwayisup Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 Just tell him to leave you alone! Tell him if he loves you, he'll do that for you and respect your wishes.
Author scaredinlove Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 Just tell him to leave you alone! Tell him if he loves you, he'll do that for you and respect your wishes. I will try that aproach. Thanks.
Dayzie Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 all so much easier said than done. Guess I'm sick too b.c I think it's funny. But, listen to everyone else, don't talk to him and move on.
Author scaredinlove Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 all so much easier said than done. Guess I'm sick too b.c I think it's funny. But, listen to everyone else, don't talk to him and move on. I know I shouldn't talk to him again. I hate him right now.I was fine he had desapered for a while now he is back and I am going crazy again.I feel calling his wife and giving her all details even things he said about her. But I won't because she is already suffering enough.But I hate him right now and that is what I will tell him next time he calls.I don't usually have hard fellings but this man showed how much i could love and now is showing me how much I can hate.I Really hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dayzie Posted October 17, 2006 Posted October 17, 2006 I know I shouldn't talk to him again. I hate him right now.I was fine he had desapered for a while now he is back and I am going crazy again.I feel calling his wife and giving her all details even things he said about her. But I won't because she is already suffering enough.But I hate him right now and that is what I will tell him next time he calls.I don't usually have hard fellings but this man showed how much i could love and now is showing me how much I can hate.I Really hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD be angry! And if you talk to him tell him that and show him that, maybe he won't care but it will make you feel better Again, moving on and letting go is so much easier said than done and no advice any of us tell you will help b/c it is something you need to decide and do on your own. You will truly let go when your heart is ready, doesn't matter if it is right to love him or not, you do end of story. Good luck and don't give up on true love, it's out there somewhere.
Author scaredinlove Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 GOOD be angry! And if you talk to him tell him that and show him that, maybe he won't care but it will make you feel better Again, moving on and letting go is so much easier said than done and no advice any of us tell you will help b/c it is something you need to decide and do on your own. You will truly let go when your heart is ready, doesn't matter if it is right to love him or not, you do end of story. Good luck and don't give up on true love, it's out there somewhere. You made me laugh.I am not sure about true love , but I will keep my heart open, maybe one day .Not now ,Please...True love you come my way.
freakygal78 Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Scaredinlove, just remember that hate is the flipside of passion and if he is getting such a reaction from you it is most likely because you feel for him so much - yes I agree with the reponses here that getting angry is a good thing - he is the scum of the earth and I know most people in here involved with a MM are suffering from their lack of integrity but really when you can show real indifference - then you have won - I think I am most way there but he still gets to me because I work with him and have to see him everyday - I guess I am torturing him in my own way as I have now started dating a SG half his age (for me of course not to make him jealous) but I have a right to as he has no claim on me. It is tough but I'm sure it's tough on his ego too - he makes a point of coming near my new SG and I when we are having a chat or whatever to make his presence known - he thinks I will fold for his attentions again or whatever but he has another thing coming. It's bringing out the sadistic side in me rubbing it in his face but I just have to remember the pain he has caused me so far and the love and affection I am actually getting from the new SG as opposed to some manipulative songs MM emails me and the sporadic eye contact and conversation and I know I've made the right choice - good on you girlfriend for getting rid of him for good I hope you stick to it!
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