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Hey people...

Have been checking this site out the past few weeks and found it to be great helpduring my break up with my girlfriend. Never really needed to post anything because most answers to my questions were up already.

 

Sorry bout the length of this but i'd love to get anyones opinion on it. Coz i'm totally confused.

 

Basically, we broke up about 2months ago. Bit of a weird one at that... On our 2nd year anniversary to the day!

I was the one who initiated it more than her. I didn't wanna break up completly but wanted a change in the relationship or at least a bit of a break. So we decided on a break to which i knew wasn't gonna come of any good. We went a week without speaking and i decided that it wasn't what i wanted and that i did truely love her and if she'd wanna try again. She basically had time to think and decided against it and told me her reasons. I was gobsmacked...

 

I tried and tried for about 4days solid to change her mind and told her that i know i acted a fool and i really did love her, but she was having none of it. So decided to leave it... Being in the profession i'm in i tend to have a few beverages and become friendly with the text messages. So sent her some still trying to get her back. Still to no avail!

 

So after practically making a total fool out of myself decided to leave it altogether and move on. Which went alright for a few weeks. Met a girl and started something with her. Nice girl and everything but in the back of my mind i knew she wasn't my ex and was just something to keep me going til she made up her mind. I know... i was being a total prick!

 

The ex's birthday was coming up and didn't know if i should get her something... i knew she liked flowers so got her a big bunch of her favourite one and a card sent to her house. She wasn't expection it at all and when she got them i got a call saying thanks and that i shouldn't have went out of my way. So i was happy we were talking again!

 

So we texted and called each other for the next few months. She was out one night and i was out with my mates. We were texting throughout the night and i got a text message asking if she'd mind coming over? Mind? No, come over i said... She met me at a niteclub and we got a taxi back to mine. I told her i was going to bed and if she'd like a blanket for where she was laying down. She asked: "Why? Can i not come up to your room?".

So she came up... We left our clothes on and just held on to each other.

 

Next morning it was weird because it was like we never broke up. I went to make breakfast and when i returned noticed my phone had been moved. Thought nothing of it and ate breakfast... she then turned around and said she read my text messages... I was like... ****! Didn't go mental at her, but she said she was shocked and to see all the messages from the other girl. She kinda looked upset which made me happy because i knew she still had feelings.

 

To make things faster for you... We've basically been seeing each other for the last 3weeks and it been good. She's been staying over after nights out. The only thing that is confusing me is that i'm going out pulling all the shots... dinner, movie, holding her hands, kissing, writing nice text messages... she hasn't been that affectionate with me. Kinda weird... Anyone have a clue why she's acting like that? It's not as if she's not nice to me and trying to blank me... We're meeting up on wednesday for some shopping and she's coming to my gigs as well.

 

Is it just a time thing and let things sort themselves out?

Sorry again for the length of this monster!

Appreciate any responses ;)

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