Guest Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 its only been 3 days of NC and i want to send her a poem of how hurt i am, how messed up she is, and how much i want her back. shes talking to another guy already and she talked to him 1 day before she broke up with me. but i still want her back. do you guys think its a good idea for me to send her this poem and if she doesnt want me back after this, then i guess it could be my closure. or is it a bad idea to do this?
shawn_68 Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 its only been 3 days of NC and i want to send her a poem of how hurt i am, how messed up she is, and how much i want her back. shes talking to another guy already and she talked to him 1 day before she broke up with me. but i still want her back. do you guys think its a good idea for me to send her this poem and if she doesnt want me back after this, then i guess it could be my closure. or is it a bad idea to do this? If she already knows how you feel leave it alone. You will accomplish nothing except sacrificing your own dignity. Let her find you if she changes her mind. You will be FAR better off - whether she comes back or not. As men, we have bought into this notion that if we just let a woman know how we feel, then somehow that will change everything. When you're dumped, unless she didn't know how you felt to begin with, and THAT was the reason for the breakup, it wont work. And not only that but it makes things worse. Sorry, man, I feel for you. A lot of us have been there.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 The other posters are right on target. Good luck
jimmy20013 Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Don't do it. I worte a beautiful poem after she dumped me and gave it to her. She just said thank you. My poem, my feelings, my emotions didn't mean a thing to her. I was so hurt. Don't do it. I have been down that road.
Kamille Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 been there done that too. NO. Bad idea. Especially if it's a poem about 1)how hurt you are and 2)how messed up she is. You might not see it now, but that would make the situation worse. keep writing poems, but for yourself. good luck!
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